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Jan 08, 2010
Jen:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You need help with the healing. It's too difficult to do this alone. Please seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of being molested. I'm proud of you for standing up for what you know is right. The people who tell you to get over it and that he was "young too" don't have a clue. E is a sex offender. Like you said, he knew what he was doing was wrong, otherwise he would never have told you to keep it a secret. But more than anything, this is about the way it has affected you, even today. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 08, 2010
Abuse is Abuse especially when one knows what the other did was wrong
by: maurice

Jen 2 please read Darlene's comment to you, slowly but very deffineately. you will read between the lines exactly what she is saying to you from her heart. She truly has a waomans heart for all her visitors. She sure has given you loving, supporting words of encouragement what you should do RIGHT NOW. Don't hestitate, or make reasons for you not doing anything, Darlene loves you, want you to be safe, knows you need help so your healing process can begin. By talking and sharing waht you wrote to Darlene with a counsellor/therapist you will see for yourself she has given you good advice in what she suggests the way forward for you. At 24 get off your bottom, take your life into your own hands and begin living it to the full. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. becaome active and alive with likeminded people your own age. Join local sporting or cultural groups even a walking group. Taking you out and about instead of lazing around your apartment/house dwelling on what you cousin did wrong to you. Letting go is a good beginning for you especially at the start of 2010 A new Year. Jen2 we all want what is the best for you. But Darlene's words to you are you stepping stones to a happy future for yourself. Look in the mirror, admire the wonderful and beautiful ME in that mirror. be gentle and kind to that beautiful Body of yours. erase the memories of his touching you by using soothing creams and body lotions and erase the not so niceness of that touching. I CAN> I WILL, I MUST because I'M WORTH IT. Darlene knows best take her advice.

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