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May 06, 2011
Janetta:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've been so honest here. I applaud and commend you for that. You really are stronger than you realize. You likely feel like the little girl you once were right now at 30 because you've got some changes coming into your life that are unknown. Perhaps you're afraid of being on your own, standing on your own two feet. That's generally a major trigger for most people. You're questioning why you survived...perhaps it's time to question your thoughts about yourself instead. I already recommend this book to another contributor early today: Byron Katie's book titled Loving What Is. Her work is all about questioning our thoughts, with the premise that when we do, we begin to think differently, and when we think differently we are changed. I see it as a way toward healing and recovery. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 07, 2011
Don't quit: Don't give up on yourself: Be a winner
by: maurice

Janette: You are one very brave woman of 30 years Great you searched for and found Darlene's site:
Let this be the turning point of your life: Her loving words to you are the beginning only if you want them to be and do something what she encourages you is the way for ward for you: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Open up to new horizons: jump out of bed, well roll out of bed each day thinking/praying I will try something new today: Something positive and constructive: I am sure in your area there are womens clubs of your own age and gender: Even sporting and cultural clubs for you to be part of: Now if there is a Basketball/football/hockey/ team around you go and join: Be a team person: you are gifted: you you are tallented: You have leadership Qualities so share all with team mates and your friends: Don't chop and change friends too often: too many will put your head in a dizzy: If you become part of a group/team you'll make natiural/real/true friends for life: genuine: Hi a spot of counsellling would not go astray on you either: Oh yes get all the abuse you were forced through put in perspective: You were innocent/vunerable as a child/adolecetn/teen when it all happened you: I am not to blame: It was never (EVER) my doing or fault: I was abused by sicko's with beastly insticts out of control: No respect of the innocent me: The vunerable me: Janetta: You'll be a winner: Follow Darlene's heart words to you she is rightly known as the relationship lady: Her heart is relating to yours in your honesty and couage of telling your abuse story on her safe-haven site: I with all her many visitors can empatise and indeed sympatise in all the pain and the effects of abuse you are trying to make empowerment of you rather than a negative in your life: Darlene has proved there is life after abuse: you prove it to yourself be a victim of abuse into victory for you in your life:

May 09, 2011
My heart goes out to you
by: Meghan

I am soo sorry that you had to go on living your life with all this stuff that has happened to you. This is the most heart breaking story I had to read. I feel so sad that you had to put up with that throughout your life time. I respect you highly for you to express what you have today and I think that it shows alot that you would tell people your story. I am thinking of you and all the other people and children that has had to go through this in their life. I am going to try to make a group that will help young people to live with abuse and also to try stop the abuse amoung kids.

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