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Apr 17, 2010
Jan:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Check your local phonebook for resources that might be available to you: child abuse support organizations, women's shelter, crisis center, etc. You are not to blame for what happened to you; you didn't deserve to be sexually abused. Now that you have, you deserve help with the repercussions. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Apr 21, 2010
Always believe in YOURSELF: Don't give up on YOURSELF:
by: maurice

Oh Jan, my heart goes out to you, the hurt and damage these bad, bad beasts did to you does not have to life lasting and ruin your life: Darlene is a winner over horrific abuse: She was a victim: but now she is a professional carer/helper of thousands of abuse victims; She is their hope, she is their Angel Guardian: she is there will to do something about thier abuse: helping them to begin the process of healing and recovery from whatever type of abuse they suffered at the hands of sicko's beast's and any other vile words that would name the horrible type's they were: taking away the innocenece of the innocent. Your life was ruined by such people. But don't you let them win-out. Begin today seeking out real help for yourself. Darlene has given you suggestions on where to look; There are great counselors and professional therapist out there to walk and talk with you. In total truat and confidence they will re-assure you that there is a life to be lived after abuse. JAN each of Darlene visiitors want what is the best for you NOW in your life. Taking one day at a time, begin to trust yourself firstly: Then your closest of trusting friends. Who love you, who care about you, who enjoy your company: slowly allow them to open up new horizons for you: Hi Don't quit searching for the real man that will make you happy: He's out there Jan: you can count on your fingers those animalistic of amles who ruined your life at the most innocent and vunerable years: You must take charge of your life, you are a big girl now, a fabulous young woman and you are learning from the horrificness of abuse perpetrated on you. You are a stronger woman now: don't ever give up on the me in the mirror Jan. Begin slowly to build yourself a good mirror image of the wonderful and beautiful YOU in the mirror: I am, instead I am not, I have a beautiful etc, etc, not I don't like this or that. negative: Think Positive: Act Positiuve: Be positive in all you do and say to yourself in the mirror. Be gentle and kind to yourself and your body. There are creams and lotions out there that you can rub and massage into your skin: It is a good feeling Jan: Who am I saying that to (A woman) sure us males don't know how to pamper our bodies. I do Jan, that is why I know how it makes you feel. Go on, hug and cuddle yourself, there's nobody looking. It is your special and personal place to be. Oh I nearly forgot Jan: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: get out there being active and alive with like-minded people: a whole new world will open up for you: Please speak with a counsellor to begin your journey back to recovery and healing from your absue. I CAN: I WILL: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT. Believe it JAN: it is true. Ok off your bottom now You may feel you are at a low ebb in yourself but the only back for you now is UP UP.

Apr 28, 2010
hope
by: susan

hey, i want u to kno, tht u r in my prayers..maybe nice people r trying to be there for u, u jst need to start trusting them, also choose people into ur life carefully...i wish the best for u, and may u find a man tht will understand u and complete u in everyway possible way.because not all men are bad..some are amazing and one day you will be blessed to know tht..god bless!!

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