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Apr 13, 2010
J MTZ:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm so happy that you had the courage get your daughter out of that environment. You did what your mother didn't have the real courage to do. I can only hope that the molester whom you had to call "Dad" is no longer in a position to molest other girls. Thank you for sharing your story and your all-important message with my visitors and me.

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Apr 13, 2010
damn dude
by: Anonymous

Thats crazy your dad and uncle made you do that sick stuff. a serious matter like this should be handled with care. torture that no one deserves to live through. some side affects are inability to trust your parents, who can you trust? Abuse by a primary caregiver damages the most fundamental relationship as a child?that you will safely, reliably get your physical and emotional needs met by the person who is responsible for your care. Without this base, it is very difficult to learn to trust people or know who is trustworthy. also Adult survivors of child abuse can struggle with unexplained anxiety, depression, or anger. They may turn to alcohol or drugs to numb out the painful feelings.

Apr 14, 2010
Some one to really trust: You just did not have:
by: maurice

J.MTZ. my heart goes out to you admittingly from a distance, you were brutatly used and abused by a man. I certainly would not call Father. You had a Mother who should be assessed for her failures to love and cherish her children individually. Your Mother was a waste of space in your life. Saying sorry on one hand and then welcoming you back and telling you everything would be okay. Even the family member you trusted should have warned you not to go back but failed you too. Your abuse and molestation was of the sadistic an aimalistic nature. No human being in their sane sense would do the things that happened to you. Your life has been ruined by beasts. It is great now you are brave for your daughters safety. Please surround yourself with real true honest friends. A true friend will stand by you, care for you, love you, be there for you and your daughter in all times. there is safety in numbers so place both of you in a place surrounded by people who really care. Please if possible talk to a counsellor who will support you professionally and place you a real care situtaion for the safety of your daughter. Please begin to love and cherish yourself as being a brave and strong woman/MOTHER. The torture you endured is beyond human thinking. Darlene she has surely affirmed you as a woman would. She has a womans heart for all her visitors especially for her own species. She knows all you have endured at the hands from all those beasts. J MTZ please take time, stay safe for yourself and your child. Children are so precious as I experienced with my bests friends who reared three beautiful daughters and now dotitg over their 4 grand-children. The love showered is so natural. I was with them at the week-end they were babysitting theire youngest 4 month old. The joy I experienced watching them and I was able to say sure when her mammy was that age I saw your love and care too. These are the couple who helped me make a real sense of Abuse. We talked very openly about the awfulness of it. I was able to say to them if anyone ever layed a hand on their children I would personally hang them out etc. As there children grew I walked with them, a real family trust. They now in turn want me to be part of their childs life. I being an only child have no nieces or nephews so my friends help me to value you what rearing a child is all about. Thankfully All my friends are real caring and genuine parents. I can emphatise with You JMTZ wanting to protect your baby from abuse. Please trust one or two women, call them friends, allow each other to keep you and you child safe. That is my wish and prayer for you.

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