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May 08, 2010
Holly:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Feel free to share more (there's always more) but only if you feel it will help YOU. And while I commend and applaud that you want to help others, you will best be able to do that by helping yourself first. I do hope you are, or will consider entering into some form of counselling in order to help you deal with coming from such a horrible environment. You deserved (and still deserve) to be treated with dignity and respect; the fact that you weren't and the degree of abuse you dealt with tells me that your parents were troubled, twisted and sick. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 08, 2010
The effects of abuse remain deep within if we don't name them and get help
by: maurice

Holly 1. You shared as much and as little as you felt at ease with relating the forms of abuse you have to work through still to Darlene and her visitors: Thank you you for your honesty but please be truly honest with yourself as to why you were trying to safeguard Visitors to Darlene's site in not full expressing the effects that the abuse is still having on yourself: I sincerely hope you have a real friend or two who will support you to let all the feelings you have out about what you were put through and what happened to you in ABUSE: Please think about counselling: You truly need that professional help: I assure you that it will put all you wrote in perspective and also encourage you to release all the pain of the effects of abuse still dowmant inside you: You have loads to let go of: prioritise which is paining you most and deal with it: You can't really help another until you fully understand your own abuse and it effects on you still: You may put up a good front but if your truly honest the abuse is eating you up inside: Finding your Mam hanging dead is traumatic and will takes loads of counselling and loving for you to let go off: You cannot help another fully untill you are totally free in yourself to: While we can empatise with each one who was ever abused we cannot truly help them by telling them how we coped with our own abuse: Please think about counselling: You are highly intelligent especially in all you told to me, Darlene and all her visitors: You will be doing yourself jsutice if you follow Darlene's words of Love and encouragement to you: I want what is the best for you: Always believe in yourself:

May 11, 2010
This Is from: Dekalb Elmentary School Of The Arts
by: bria and ashley

Fromm Ashley:

I was really touched by your story and i was suprised you made it through all of that mess in your life.

From Bria:

I was also touched by your story so the thing i want to tell you is good luck!!!!!!

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