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Jun 20, 2011
Heather:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

What happened at the hands of this sick excuse of a man was not your fault. And now that you're remembering again, you really do need to tell someone who can help you. This is way over your boyfriend's head. And yours too. You need help dealing with this, because it will get more and more difficult to deal with as you move through the various ages and stages of your life. Tell your parents. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You didn't tell them before because you didn't know better and you were afraid. But now you DO know better. The fact is, this man is very likely still abusing little girls, and has probably been abusing them for a long time, including his own daughters. Tell so that you can get help for yourself, and so that other little girls don't have to suffer the way you had to suffer. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 28, 2011
You are so Brave: I really belive this is a turning point for the good in your life
by: maurice

Heather: this is your gentle cry for help: You came to the right place: Read Darlene's comment: Don't be afraid anymore to talk to some one: It would be great if you felt easy telling your Parents NOW; but if that is a difficulthy then a caring teacher or indeed if you have a school counsellor: But do tell on this beast who ruined your innonocence in what he tried to do and di to you: You say he abused his own children so that seem for certain he could be still picking on there friends and other little girls: You don't want that for certain: It is great you have a boyfriend who values you: Respects you and who you trust to share everthing with: but you are both young and innocent building a friendship/relationship so when Darlene's says it is alot for both of you to handle so seeking out advice from an older mature trusting person will be of benefit to you both: between you I am certain with each other's support and enciragement you'll be able to find that trusting individual: Heather I hope you have a true friend or friends your own age and gender that you can trust equally as you do your boyfriend: This is important Heather: Hi, begin today having a healthy mind in a healthy body: become a team person by taking part in sporting and cultural activities with girls your own age: Encourage that boyfriend to like wise: You both will benefit a great deal from it and make new and real friends and aquaintances that will remain in your lifes for a long time: Please Heather: read darlene woman's heart comment to you: She knows what is the best way forward for you NOW: for deffinite is getting that bad, bad man out of the equasion and away from children: See, how he abused you tearing off your clothes and trying to sexually take advantage of you at four years of age: He is a sicko: a child molester, abuser so Heather you are articulate and intelligent in they way you shared your story so please now act on Darlene's advice in her loving heart words to you: I WILL I CAN I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT
That you are Heather: Always believe in yourself: be safe: stay safe: STAY in EDUCATION:

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