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Dec 21, 2010
Hayden:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

As long as your past continues to haunt you, it will interfere with your life. As you move through the various ages and stages of your life, you may discover just how nasty those interferences can and will be. I strongly recommend some form of counseling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of not only the abuse at the hands of your brother, but also the betrayal and abandonment at the hands of your obviously disturbed biological father. You are so worthy of that kind of help. And your children deserve to have a mother who is healthy and fully present for them. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 22, 2010
a womans heart:: speaks tons especially a caring one:
by: maurice

Hayden: Be brave: Be strong: go for counselling: Darlene has spoken fro her heart to yours: You have found the stepping stone to move forward from and let go of what your brother did to you: Don't let him ruin your life or indeed that din't bother biological Father of yours: Ok NOW, tday, this week speak with your husband read Darlene's comment together: You'll know best how to handle her loving words to you: Your children will be all the better for you once you put what your horrible broether put you through: Getting counselling will put those years in perspective for you and then Let go of the effects and memories: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much beginning with yourself: One sure way too is to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Meaning you get of your bottom and become active and alive with women/mothers your own age and take part in sporting and cultural activities: This will in turn help you and your husband to encourage your children to have healthy minds in healthy bodies: Hayden, this is a new day and shortly we'll have a new year: Don't bring your yesterdays into your tomorrows and 2011: Let Go.

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