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Sep 27, 2010
Hannah:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Any family member who would think less of you for having been a victim of a child sexual predator is someone who is seriously troubled. You were violated by someone who had groomed you. He made sure you thought he was "nice" so that he could sexually assault you without fear of repercussions. This is on HIM, not you. You did nothing wrong. None of what happened was your fault. NONE OF IT. Please be honest with your therapist. You need to talk about that molestation if you have any hope of getting through all those repercussions. The road toward healing and recovery is in taking the road, not circumventing it. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Sep 27, 2010
Talk it out with someone you trust: Someone called Friend:
by: maurice

You have been brave: You have been strong: Sorry to hear about your mother dying: It was at a very vunerable time for you at 15: I am sure you felt good at being able to tell her what that sicko was doing to you: Your Boy friend too: and your few friends: You have gotten some relief from sharing it wuth them: Now I am certain you shared more with one of them more then the rest: Let that person be your inner strength to get counselling: Hannah: Darlene has given you a loving comment: With helpful and sincere words of love and encouragement to get help to begin healing from that Animal of a man who ruined your beautiful innocence as a child: Grooming you to do all the awful stuff he did to you sexually abusing your beautiful body: taking away your preciousness and your dignity: If you follow the advice Darlene gave to you in her Comment: You'll begin to put it all in perspective for yourself: Speak with a Therapist NOW because you know it will be for your good: You are an intelligent young woman NOW: your life is in your hands: Take charge of it; You'll be fine with alot of help from your friends: But your counsellor or therapist will put all that he did to you in perspective: darlene has proven to us all that there is life after being physically/sexually or emotionally abused: She was a victim: Now she has turned that into victory and power to help her many visiitors to believe in themselves: Her comment to you is a very personal one: Please act on it: Always believe in yourself: Have good and true friends around you to help you: I WILL: I CAN: iI MUST LET THIS BE YOUR MOTTO: WHY??? BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: You sure are Hannah:

Sep 28, 2010
Be strong.
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you, but please try and realise, you did nothing wrong. You need to believe that in yourself and to hell what anybody else thinks!! You were an innocent child who wasn't provided with the protection you rightly deserved. The man is nothing but a predator who preyed on your innocence. Children do not have an understanding of what is happening to them, only that it doesn't feel right. Being an adult now, I hope you can come to terms with the fact that you were only a child and you had no power to protect yourself. No child does. Please get the help you need so you can live a fulfulling life. You deserve that. Don't let that scum take that away from you. Sadly you are not the only person abuse has happened to as a child but there are people out there who understand and who can help.

Nov 17, 2010
feel your pain
by: Anonymous

hay hannah i was molested at the same age you was by my uncle and at the age of sixteen by my mother boyfriend i sp sad that you have to go though i told my mother and she called the police and now his in jail until i trun 22 i hope you can found way to forgive him some day

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