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Mar 28, 2010
Haley:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what you are dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing yours and your sister's story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 28, 2010
dont miss out on each other money isnt worth it
by: Anonymous

why would your mom let her have you two.

money isnt worth it, working eveyone make fun of me because i stayed home, when my mom got wierd old and abusive i well let her go , they didn like it honestly my brother i paid dearly for getting rid of my old mom i love her, she didnt know what she was doing, old people they dont belong with little ones to watch them, i am a mom and had wonderful gradmom for daugther and sons she too impatient once got old
i remember well not so great a situtation where they tryed to ruin my life take our home and for money but later worked out i didnt sign anything,
dont sign things with out someone advise you ever
if someone ask you to but out of character,
my parents supposed but i think other grand parents, they mean let my child cry i told my son to go in help her crying see old people they dont understand their day very different than ours kind of kids better not heard or seen kind of way very wrong but they raised back then like this . yelling is well a part of life too
italian people yell too we are italian, they dont mean anything we used to laugh at that and when someone apologize that is not abuse if they argue that is human, normal, but a perfect life yes most of us want, i quit jobs to do day care so i could be with kids , so your mom you should talk to, the cellar thing sound s weird
maybe she got abused when little since she didnt really hurt you , maybe you be the leader in family now talk to her maybe grandmom needs forgiveness and love , apologize to you and your mom you and your sister sit down talk ,
did you tell your mom, i had to put my parents out when they acted badly. i loved them dearly but i knew it wouldnt work out, its called tough love, they understood later, admitted they did wrong and all my brother he was mad, he didnt want them with him , also they didnt act like themself i noticed either. why i dont know the reason talk to your mom she knows most likely
who and why she did that, and shold not have
maybe senial too. mental things ect. as people get old that happens, too a medical thing medicine can help her maybe. the arguing well best familys argue under pressure so i would just avoid it, when it happens . i yell i have to get things off my chest sometimes thats better than holding it in, and not abusive either everyone is an emotional human , fact
i was told one time that if the cousnelor i had , she said the things done to me rude and such and family things not so abuse but any they would have done more than yell
and money is not so important as you and yoursister
mom needs to maybe quit work be with you two
let grandmom pay money or help out
or take a vacation sound like
get the dad or state to help take a break for family love and such. would mom do it,
they hate the fact i did this quit work to be with the kids, i still pay for this now

Apr 17, 2010
Confused: There was emotional Abuse
by: Maurice

If Hayley C you are still trying to make sense of the way your Grand Mother loved you and your ssiter means she emotionally abused you even though she might have not wanted to. Speaking harshly and putting you and your sister down in the cellar was her way of punishing you both. I am afraid in the dark even today, I have to have a light on in my room at night. For an innocent child made sit down in the cellar steps afraid emotional abuse. Slapping you in the face is also abuse. You and your sister would benefit greatly from speaking with a Counsellor or Therapist. It is your life NOW that is being effected: So HayleyC I have no doubt you are both big girls now so you can do things that will help you make a sense of the punishment of your Grand Mother. I am sure she did not mean to have what she did effecting you in your life today. I hope you and your sister speak to each other as your feelings now. Maybe a chat with your working Mom would also help. It is a milder form of abuse so it's effects can be erased and made sense of. Get out and about living your life to the full, Have a healthy mind in a healthy body, I encourage this because it works wonders in people lives no matter their age. Especially togetherness with others taking part naturaly in Team Sports and cultural activities. Be free, take to walking/climbing/mountain air. Hayley C Always believe in your self. I'm Special, I am goin gto LOVE me. because I am WORTH it. Believe it, this true. I can, I will, I must, Look in that mirror and build up your self-esteem. Think Positive thought about yourself and your beautiful body. I am, instead I am not. I have a beautiful etc Rather than I don't like this about me etc. once you begin to value and respect yourself doing so with others will fall into place. So out of your house, work, rest and play, if you are a prayer than pray too. But intergrate and mix and feel good. Live well, laugh alot, love much. On Darlene's site if your read her comments to her visitors and all levels of abuse they have suffered than you will put into perspective what happened you and your sister. I know you have a freind or two that you bare yourself to not physical but from the inside out. within your belly button feelings and secrets to. You have a golden person in your life if you have that friend. You be a light in the Darkness of peoples lives, blossom in the corner of the world you live in.

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