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Mar 24, 2010
Genna:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 25, 2010
tea partys / us too under our cherry tree
by: Anonymous

your picture did you know the double exposure of three is a sign of god , angels the trintiy


i coulndt stop this, lies

also we were told to read books about madeline le engle , all of them
to help children, and other one people of the lie

it took years to understand why they said read those books, lies and tryed to break up family one loved each other ect and still do it now

the part about tea partys , we used to sit outside out cherry tree , dress up and have dolls and bears stuffed animals and have tea partys , and collect tea sets

this past year the cherry tree died too

that was when my daughter was in grade school just started and went with her dad to visit i too experienced things not the same after our tea partys.

i spent a few years protecting trying to find out what happen durning her visits and why she changed too and her dad,

sounds like you are the tea party girl thats who you really are , i had my most special memories the very most special under that cherry tree with tea partys , never forget it

i still talk about it to this day , when the tree died i was very upset. there was a little branch too just right size for climbing on the right size too for child size.
, again get back to who you liked to be , grades they are not as important as your feelings and your happiness and emotional stability

we lived in country out in md and at beach in de

and went thru same stuff as you not the physical abuse but the mental things.

i took part of my family to the beach with me
to recover . and be a family again.
i offered for other ones to come with us they didnt want to go with me. then later regreted it but too late.



besides those books have you heard of polyvore
its neat place to do stuff maybe do your tea thing remember tea party and design stuff

and think port you ever been on line see that too
why any grandmom treat little angels as my parents called them our children badly i dont know
our side stayed together the grand mom and grandad, and mom and dad . back together

i think that helped too. i wouldnt have allowed that for my family. to happen period.

did you have hats , straw ones , we had those too when had tea parties.

fun , so sorry that that ended up happening you

is that your mom or your step mom,

i cant imagine a grandmom mean to little girl
all mom s and familie s dream of having l help yourself.
i say the our father prayer for you tonight


Mar 25, 2010
our awful education
by: Scott Canada

Hi Genna.
I'm so sorry for what you've been through and hope there are better days ahead. I have to believe there will be.

I would like to share my story of "education." I went through things similar to yours and from the residual effects on me I came to the conclusion my school "spankings" were sexual. This I cant prove and some people dont believe spanking is in any way sexual. I think taking a child's clothes off to "have your way " with them is just that, sexual, even if its just a spanking.
This is just part of the torture I endured at school and my home life sounds quite similar to yours as well. The mental abuse at home and at school was torture as a child. I feel for you. I know how it feels. I was threatened every other day with being kicked out of the house and sent to a reform school. This place was later in the news for the abuse physical and sexual the kids endured there. I am glad dad didnt send me away. Life at home was insane enough anyway though and the things I endured at school were never shared by me. I couldn't tell my parents. They knew anyways I think and my teacher called my house to tell my mother what she was doing to me so then it was all ok.
I know how you feel on so many levels. All I can offer you is that you are not alone in your experiences at home and school. My story is on here if you want to look it up. I'm SCOTT CANADA. On occasion I will direct the readers to my pages,especially when it pertains to spanking and school abuse. That is how I was educated. Things changed for me in the 2nd-3rd grade and turned to hell from my teachers. I cant even explain how my mind reacted to what was happening.


I couldn't imagine having to live in a home with one of these elementary school teachers(as you did) who spank. I can only imagine what my teacher would have done to me, had she the opportunity to have me all to herself in her own home. I cringe for the other children in her care she abused in her home, if she had any. If she had the power to strip my clothes off in the classroom I can only imagine what she was doing to kids, or maybe just boys, in the privacy of her own home.
Ive often wondered what was going on in the private lives of these teachers and how they treated their own.
This makes me ask the question ..did your grandparents spank their students?
Please write more. It does help to write about it..
Good luck, be well.

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