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Aug 16, 2010
Gemma:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

First and foremost, I'm going to be very forthright with you: That pedophile did not have sex "with you"; he sexually abused you. Your father was not "born" that way; something happened along the way to make him that way. And lastly, don't ever blame your freind for what your father did to her. Whether or not she said no, he had no right to sexually assault her, just as he had no right to sexually assault you. Please get some form of counseling for what happened to you. You need to understand that none of it was your fault, and that your father is not only a sex offender, he's a pedophile that will continue to molest little girls until someone reports him and he's stopped. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Aug 18, 2010
It was not my Fault: It was not my friends Fault
by: maurice

Gemma: The re-assurance of Darlene comment to you I hope will see you getting real help NOW: Counselling as Darlene suggests is a must: You'll feel the benefit in a short time: It maybe painful at the start but once your counsellar or therapist put's yo at ease you will then put all that Man did to you in perspective: Please believe Darlene in her discription of this Man: Tell on him: You I am certain don't want to happen other little children tender bodies what happened to you: Be brave: Be strong for all of them: Please tell on him: Gemma: what a lovely name I know you have one maybe two very close friends (girls) hopefull who you have shared what that bad man did to you: Let them be your inner strength to tell on this man: They will stand by you: help you: keep you safe: Now start living your life to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: That means becoming Active and Alive with your own age group in Sporting and Cultural activities: Team Sports in one sure way of acknowledgeing your giftedness/tallents: You will get to value your body beautiful: Gemma build up a great mirror image of yourself: Build up your own Self Worth and Self Esteem: Look in the mirror see yourself beautiful: Think positive thought about yourself and say beautiful things about your body: Gemma: You be a winner over your abuser: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: What am I?? I AM WORTH IT;

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