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Dec 13, 2010
G:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Dec 13, 2010
therapy
by: My Two Cents

If you are employed with benefits, some companies offer short term employee counselling through the employee assistance plan. This may not be enough but it is one resource you could explore.

The other thing you may want to look at is the self help books section at the local chapters for books like Darlene's or "The Courage to Heal" by Ellen Bass. There are others as well which may also be found at your library. Some of these books have self help exercises to do independently to start the healing process.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Dec 14, 2010
Don't Quit: YOU be the winner: Always believe in yourself
by: maurice

Life can begin at 40 for you G in Oklamhoma: I like the song: The hiddenness of child abuse: The sad part the further one goes back in generations it sure was hidden: You are one very good human being of the female species that suffered from that hiddenness: with no one to turn to or talk to; Nobody gave a damn it was went so unoticed: I mean it when I said life can begin at 40 for you: You'll have to make it happen: My two cents sure has given you heartfelt words where to begin: Great you found Darlene's site: That too is a good place to begin your healing: A father raping you: A mother beating you: with only one of your sibling acceting and believeing it happenbed: One sister believeing is also a good beginning: Now get a friend: A woman your own age and even two women your own age: Call them friends: Get out and about sharing your time with them: talking out your real and deep feelings with someone you really trust is a sure beginning too: Stay safe: Be safe: only surround yourself with genuine caring loving people who won't hurt you: G sadly teachers and others who were supposed to be the pillors of society did not speak out when they saw you walking gingerly toyour tesk because of the rape: Or who noticed your bruised body have alot on the conscious today: My heart truly goes out to you: Hi, Don't you Quit: Don't you Give up on the wonderful and beautiful you: Always believe in yourself: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much: My two Cents said alot from her heart to you, self helping yourself by reading relevant books on the sub-ject of abuse: Darlene's own book sure will give you that start and confidence: Also in your place of employment you may be able to get some form of counselling that you can afford: You endured alot at the hands of unscrupolous Parents: Who were control freaks: Sick in the mind freaks: Little beasts in the way they abused you: They don't deserve to be caled parents for what they did to you: Your Father raping you is the pits of depraved mind: Hi look up and outward: Set your own horizons to reach and go for them:

Dec 20, 2010
G in Oklahoma
by: Anonymous

G my immediate response to your story that the abuse did not stop with you! Pedophiles want as many children as they can get their hands on.
When I was a young child my grandfather raped and abused me but he also ordered me to entice a girlfriend to come into the house to "play"
I can really relate to the anger that you are feeling and you must also be grieving for the childhood that you have lost, this is all very normal reactions.
I was fortunate to have had extensive therapy unfortunately with you living in the States your Health system is not like ours up here in Canada.
I can only hope that you will be able to find some one to one counseling because that is a huge part of the healing is talking about what happened over and over again until you get it all out, otherwise it will sit inside and fester.
If you have a close friend don't be ashamed to open up to him/her alot more people are open to this than they were when you and I were younger and no one would believe us and made me feel like it was all my fault.
Good Luck G, Happy Christmas to you and I hope the New Year brings you, Peace, Good Health and love:}



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