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Sep 13, 2009
Counselling can help with "letting go"...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, Frejya, and for your all-important message. Yes, we most certainly must band together in order to stop the cycle of abuse.

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Sep 13, 2009
Your father is out of control
by: Anonymous

Frejya, what your father had done to you was and still is out of line. Your father has lots of problems and you need help...but you need help, too. Have you both tried counselling?

Sep 14, 2009
I Understand
by: Sue

Frejya.......I understand the humiliation your father caused you at your school. It feels really bad to be hurt that way. I was abused at home and school offered an escape for a little while. I had a teacher I trusted and I thought he liked me. I was seven years old when one day after recess he discovered his wallet missing. He asked me did I take it and I said no. He grabbed me and told me I was lying. He told the principal That I had stolen his wallet and the principal paddled me in front of my whole class. The other kids called me a thief and a poor ass. I was taunted and called names on the bus ride home....The next day at school, everyone was talking about my teacher finding his wallet on the bathroom sink when he went home yesterday. They all looked at me, but I got no apologies. I know how you feel and I am so sorry for your grown up troubles. I have alot of trouble associating with people now. This website is a good place for us to start our healing....Thank you for your story.

Sep 15, 2009
I'm Sorry simple, but most difficult to say
by: maurice

Frejya, The adult world can be most cruel to children/teenagers/adolecents especially in the area of being to admit they were wrong. Sadly your father was one of those cruel adult. We were all led to believe that our parents did things for our good. Alas in hindsight we know alot differently now in all the abuse that was prepetrated by Parents and guardians of the young. Sadly even at 63 years of age I freak out at people in authority. I just stiffen up in the presence of one in charge. I get cross with myself but that is the effects of the control adults had on me as a child/teenager. Being humilated by your father in school is a devastating experience and one that alot of us find hard to shake off. When you father found his coins he should have hugged you and said I'm Sorry. No excuses for the way he treated you, making you feel insignificant was very cruel. Hi don't let him be the winner over your personality. I am beautiful, I am wonderful, I am inteeligent, I am gifted, Think positive act positive, be positive in all you do and say now. Your own self worth/self esteem are worth building on.Look in the mirror let go of all the humiliation and negativeness your father led you to believe were part of you. Say positive adjective's I am gifted, I am beautiful and I love me for who I know myself to be NOW I'm Special and I love me.

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