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Jan 27, 2010
FinallyFree:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story and your all-important message with my visitors and me. And just for the record, you didn't "let" him control you for all those years. He TOOK control. You were a vulnerable child without any of the support you so desperately needed. This is not on you; it's on your molester and on your enabling mother. The fact that your mother sent you to speak with your molester after you disclosed to her and she knew he had done it is unconscionable.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 27, 2010
Sickos for parents
by: Anonymous

FinallyFree, what your so-called parents did to you is unforgivable because they are sickos. Period. They need to be locked up for all those disgusting crimes that they committed against you. Oh, and you're not stupid for telling; in fact, you did the right thing. You were the child; they were the adults. They had all the power and they literally misused it. Have you tried counselling?

Jan 28, 2010
WOW!
by: Anonymous

Your story is inspiring! I don't know you, but I'm proud of you! My story is nothing like that, I was never abused, but I don't technically have a father. But I found a Father in God the Father, and have been so happy ever since. I am so happy for you!

Jan 29, 2010
Why?? Oh Why?? I'll never know, we'll never know
by: maurice

With help and with healing we learn and make some sense of why those Parents who colude with each other to abuse their innocent vunerable beautiful child/children knowing they are doing wrong. Finallyfree beautiful, gorgeous, wonderful human being that you are: Always believe in yourself from this day on. Great you are free, great you arrived at Darlene's wonderful helping healing site. Her comment to you I hope you will heed, empower yourself with her loving supporting encouageing words from her heart to you specially. That father of yours should be put out in the wild for a long period so he will make a sense of the wrong he done you by self satifying himself doing what he did to your tendernss of body at the age you were. He should get real help to make him realize the danage he did to you. Cageing him and indeed your mother out in the open for a year or more without the comforts of a home would certainly be a help bring them to their senses. What they did to you was NOT your Fault. I am not to blame. He led me on to have a false sense of love and rspect for him. I did not know any better, he knew that, he used me and abused me at will. He was a sicko Father. Great after it all and you making a sense of it you give the most important message to other children who may find or have found themselves in a similiar predicament to talk and to tell. Get healing by talking to a counsellor/therapist. You live well, laugh alot, love much beginning with yourself. I can. I will, I must because I am worth it.

Feb 16, 2010
Thank you!
by: Author of FinallyFree

Thank you all so much for the comments! It's really helpful to hear these things and to have that reassurance. Maurice: yes, I am currently in therapy and I thought writing this would help me to let it go even more since I've kept it bottled up for so long. It definitely has helped and I would recommend it to anyone with an abusive past. It's been a really hard road but my story has a happy ending as I am now engaged to the most wonderful man that I've already been in love with for over 8 years. He is my strength and we deserve to be happy and free from this horrible past. I have amazing friends as well who have been there when my family has let me down. Even in my lowest points, they have been there to pick me up and I've learned so much from them. I'm very lucky to have had these wonderful people in my life and I don't know where I would be without them today. They saved my life and are my inspiration to get through this. Thank you again for all the kind words. I wish you all the best!

Feb 17, 2010
I wish you all the best, Thank You.
by: maurice

A true friend is the precious jewel every human being needs in their life. Great you have found yours.Finally Free. Keep loving and respecting each other in allowing each other to grow and mature valueing each other in Love and friendship. Your The best. keep winning over abuse. keep with your therapist a sure road, a safe road to full recoever and redemption. Darlene is OUR HERO she trully was gifted and blessed with vision in setting up her site. Having a great sense of her abuse story and how she overcame it through honest blossoming out into a beautiful and wonderful woman with a heart of gold for all her visitors. From Victim to VICTORY ''WOW'' finally free that gives us all hope.

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