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May 13, 2010
Faiza:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I applaud that you have aspirations to become a profiler; that would be turning pain into power. And I'm delighted that you've stopped self-harming. And while I commend you for "moving on", I am concerned that you've buried your feelings on this; feelings that will come back to haunt you as you mature and experience more in your life. The fact that you must still be in the same room with your molester during family gatherings is a huge concern. If your family can't or won't respect what you've gone through and what happens to you whenever the molester is around, then perhaps it's time to distance yourself from being around them. Your mental health must come first.

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May 14, 2010
Always Believe in YOURSELF: You are in charge of your own destiny in life NOW
by: maurice

Faiza: A beautiful name for a very brave and very courageous young adult thinking woman: Great to hear the memories of all that cousin did to you is fading into oblivian for you: Faiza, you are wonderfully intelligent in your own right: You read again Darlene's loving, supporting, encourageing words to you in her comment: Where possible Act on her heart felt comment to youI Her words are personal for you alone: A few sessions of counselling will help you no end to put all that he did to you in perspective: Also the uncaring nature of your Families and extended families: You are old enough to make the right choices for yourself now so choose not to be part of family gatherings if he is about: By getting your family to ask why you don't want to be part etc they might learn that they cannot be seemed to be condoning what he did to you: You deserve better than that: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes Faiza that will help your healing process naturally: You will be surrounded by your team mates in sport: You will be surrounded by like-minded healthy people: Don't give up on yourself now that you have begun to make a life for yourself in College: Think about counselling, Won't You??? Live well, Laugh alot, Love much beginning with yourself: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: Get my message

May 19, 2010
thank you
by: Faiza

thank you for your comments. hearing them make me feel much braver and like someone is actually proud of me. i hope that with the help of such caring people like yourselves, my broken heart will be mended. again, thank you.

May 21, 2010
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by: Anonymous

i feel for you and i appologize for everything u had to go through at such a young age!

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