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Nov 14, 2009
You survived; THAT is what there is to be grateful for...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your Self is not forever lost, F. Your spirit has been broken, but it is not dead. You are not the abuse. You are not defined by what that sick excuse for a human being did to you. And he did it TO you, F. You have no fault in what happened to you. You have no complicity. You can be free of the pain, but you must look deep inside for that which is, and always has been, there. The fact that you've reached out through this site tells me you still have a spark left in you. Find that spark. Lean on it. And remember Who You Really Are. That Truth will not lead you astray. Let the "F" stand for Faith. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 14, 2009
Dear F
by: Anonymous

Please listen to Darleen. She's right. Just hang in there. Take it from someone who knows some of the pain you're going through right now. You CAN be helped. You must know what that horrible person did to you, was definitely not your fault. If I can heal from what happened to me, anyone can. It will be a uphill and painful climb but I have every confidence that you can do it. Hamg in there. I'll pray for you. From a fellow survivor and a friend.

Nov 15, 2009
My thoughts are with you.
by: kristen

Dear Anonymous (F),
I am just writing to say that I am praying for you. I can not even begin to understand or appreciate the pain you went through. In that pain I include the mental anguish that starts when it happened and is still continuing. Perhaps look to the future and look for better things ahead.
kristen

Nov 15, 2009
From Victim to Victory A triumph and Irrepressible Spirit
by: Maurice

Hi beautiful Human Being, flesh and bones, Heart, Mind and Soul. F. That is who I am saying Hiya to. Just read Darlene's Comment, There is your stepping stone to being a winner over abuse. Your very sick Abuser, well I prefer not to say what I would do with Him for all he put you through as a beautiful child/teenager. I will leave the rest to Darlene and her comment to you F. Oh Yes, Anonymous is a friend when she states from a SURVIVOR and FRIEND. Don't Quit, Don't give up on yourself, I am going to be the winner over that Sadistic whatever words you want to discribe him after that. Hi F, know when you or anyone feels thay have reached their lowest EBB in LIFE they only way back is UP. By doing simple things like hugging yourself, looking in the mirror and admiring that beautiful body of yours now. Physically you remember all the marks and scars etc. But our real beauty comes from within each of our being. Look at yoursefl make beautiful those thoughts that come from inside you. Stand totally different at the mirror than he had you in that Corner. Your in charge now. I am beautiful, I have a beautiful A.B.C.D etc. soothe your body all over especially what were your aching feet into sentive and tender feet. Say I can, I will, I must, Hi F just for me. Nor for Darlene, Anonymous or Maurice, just for spaecial and unique me. I hope and pray you have a FRIEND OR TWO WHOM YOU TRUST WITH YOUR LIFE. WHO LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE TODAY AFTER ALL YOU'VE SHARED WITH THEM. LET THEM HUG YOU BACK TO LIVING YOUR LIFE TO THE FULL. Live well, laugh alot, Love Much. From Victim to Victory. Darlene was there, wore the T Shirt and renamed her Book from Victim to Victory just for you and all her many Visitors. Giving us HOPE that there is LIFE after ABUSE. How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and got on with my life. Quote, Darlene. Her Comment to you is your stepping stone to real fredom with the Motto. I can, I will. I must. Go for it ever so slowly but very surely. Get yourself a Counsellor to begin with. You'll move mountains and rise from your lowest ebb right now. Don't you harm that Beautiful and exquisite Body of yours any moer. LOVE IT.

Nov 15, 2009
So many crimes committed...
by: Anonymous

F, I really hope that you are in a safe place now, that you would try counselling and that sick and sadistic excuse of a human will someday be incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that he committed against you. We are all hurting for you.

Nov 17, 2009
My heart goes for all victims
by: Anonymous

No matter what happens, You MUST NEVER listen to people who are judgemental, telling that you should forgive the abusing maniac, that it was your fault, OR that the abusing maniac "just does not know how to take care of you", etc.; all of us good-hearted, empathetic people ought to know better that judging DOES NOT belong to the victims, but to the maniac!

Dec 06, 2009
That evil creature needs to be in jail
by: BMW Princess

That evil organism needs to be locked up forever.
It will only hurt more people if it's not stopped.
All child abusers need to be in jail. I'd highly reccomend you call the cops on that creature.
May you have peace

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