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May 27, 2010
Erica:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I suggest you seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with residual of this form of non-contact sexual abuse, in particular, how it's affecting you in relationships now.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

May 27, 2010
He used you
by: Mike

It was abuse and you should get counseling to help get over the effects it had on you.

Curiosity is a perfectly natural thing and you were just a child and he was an adult. He used your curiosity for his own sexual pleasure.

May 29, 2010
:)
by: Anonymous

you shouldn't feel guilty at all. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG! you were a little girl and you were curious. he did you wrong.

May 30, 2010
Yes: He knew what he was doing to you:
by: maurice

Erica 1: heed darlene's words to you: they are from her heart and very loving and helpful if you act on her heartfelt words of encouragement to go for counselling: You will put all you've done in perspective: He knew you were curious: H knew you were in the tree watching for a reason: He displayed his parts as you refer to them simply to get you curious: You were a beautiful innocent child: Needing someone to trust and tell about your curious tendecies: All innocent and natural: you were not wrong: So don't blame yourself: he was getting sexual pleasure knowing you wre watching and curious: Not fair to you at all: Get on with living your life to the full: That chat in confidence with a counsellor will open up your mind to newer horizon for you to reach out to: have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Involve yourself with your friends taking part in sporting and cultural activitiies and let go of your curiosities natural about many things: You are gifted/tallented and have alot to share with others: There's also safety in numbers: Team sports certainly makes you active and alive in your self with others: Think positive: Act positive: Be positive in all you do and say about yourself: Always believe in yourself: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTH it: Good on you erica 1 for sharing with Darlene and her visitors: Now Act on her Comment: Off that bottom of yours and up and find a counsellor:

Aug 14, 2010
me too
by: Anonymous

Non-contact sexual abuse - why has there always got to be a hierarchy when it comes to abuse?

Erica, you, like me, were exposed to things at an age when you should have been able to start exploring things at your own time.

Of course it affects your relationships. It is badly affecting mine, too.

I hope you feel able to get some help for what you are dealing with.

From Darlene - Webmaster: Anonymous, non-contact sexual abuse isn't about hierarchy, it's about actually identifying that sexual abuse exists, even when it's of the non-contact variety. This is a good thing; otherwise, this form of sexual abuse would still be considered non-abusive, and victims would not go out and seek the help they need to deal with the repercussions.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Aug 15, 2010
I trust you are in a better and safer place now in your LIFE
by: maurice

I been away from my many friends visitors to Darlene great place and site to begin the process of telling our abuse stories: I was moving house and was not in a good place in the move: I am now settling in at my new house: These past two days I have been given an uplift since returning to the many friends and Darlene here at her safe Haven Site: She is a remarkable woman, full of insight and vision: Her comment to each one individually is one sure way for each of us to really begin the process of acing on her loving advice in her heartfelt words to eachof her visitors: She is an empowering steward of her website: How lovely to read her re-assuring words to anonymous: we can all learn and benefit from them no matter our age or where we are at in our healing from having being abused: Daily I still hear and come accross people who are still hurting inside from having been abused: All ages so I need to heed her words so I can pass them on. Erica your still num 1. I hope and pray you are living your life to the full: Not dwelling too much on the negative about your past: Alwyas believe in yourself: I will: I can: I must because I am WORTh it: If you acted on Darlene's beautiful words to you in her comment then I am certain you are in a better place: We all need to be counselled so we can put our abuse and what happened to us as a child/teenager/adolecent into perspective: It is a must: LIVE WELL: LAUGH ALOT: LOVE MUCH: Hi it is May since I first said I care about you Erica1.

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