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Feb 01, 2010
Emily:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. For the sake of your unborn child, please seek out some form of counselling to help you deal with the residue of coming from such a terrible environment. I realize that the therapist you saw in your adolescence wasn't very good, but try not to paint all therapists with the same broad brush. They are not all created equally. And just for the record, I found your story very easy to follow.

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Feb 01, 2010
A willing enabler for a mother...and a vicious beater for a father
by: Anonymous

Emily, your so-called parents are wrong and so are those who should've helped you in the first place. You are not ugly; you are beautiful. You are not stupid; you are smart. You are not worthless; you are worthy of love and respect. Your so-called parents are truly twisted and cruel in their own ways of thinking. They didn't deserve to have a beautiful daughter like you, but, most of all, you didn't deserve to have very cruel, brutal and sadistic parents. Those malicious brutes for parents should be in prison for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because you did nothing wrong. I am glad that your husband is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that! Anyway, have you tried counselling? I wish you, your kind husband and your equally beautiful baby-to-be all the best.

Feb 02, 2010
Love, honour and respect your beautul slef NOW
by: maurice

Emily 4. your story brings me back to my home place as a child. The Father and mother of many families were similiar to yours. Rural settings they did all your father and mother did to you, Their afthers beating them as young adults until they left home. control freaks wirh uneducated minds. The effects of same they still share with me. Please Always believe in yourself. help each other to love each other. respect each other, care for each other now that you have a friend the father of your child. Your Husband. your young and beautiful and safe (hopefully from further abuse by your parents or anyone. You be in charge/control of your own destiny for the love of your husband and child. Darlene has a woman's heart, gentle, sensitive, loving, caring for you esecially in her comment to you. She know what is best so please with the help of your loving husband speak to a counsellor by yourself first and then hopefully together. That Baby be born precious, pure and beautiful out of your womb and sachred passage way. your gift to you and your husband. Love the precious mite, make it both your strength's to rear it. LOVE and true LOVE is the only way to rear a baby/child/teenager. Love yourself. Always believe in yourself and your mothering qualities which come naturally but you have to work on them too. LIVE WELL>>LAUGH ALOT>>LOVE MUCH. I'M SPECIAL AND I LOVE ME.

Feb 04, 2010
Thanks
by: Emily4

Thanks to everyone who replied to my story. Even though my parents were abusive, I cant hate them. They provided me with food, shelter and clothes. I have just recently found out that both of them were abused by their parents growing up, so I guess that was the only way to show love that they knew. It wasnt fair that they did what they did to me, but I forgive them.

Feb 06, 2010
While you speak the truth continue to LOVE yourself
by: maurice

Emily, you are a good child of your parents in your own right now after sadly working through the pain of abuse they caused you. Parents don't have the right to abuse their children ever ever especially cruelly. Your parents were wrong. Great you forgive them because they did not neglect you completely. They fed and clothed you which compensated for their abuse of you enough for you to accept that and forgive them. Now please LOVE yourself, Live your own life to the full. still think about counselling, have a healthy mind in a healthy body. The effects of abuse can remain strong irrespective of the other care of parents who abuse. All parents obligation out of LOVE for their children is to respect, honour, value with dignity their rights. Emily4 you are in a good space now about it all, but still heed Darlene's loving supporting words to you. Be safe, Live well, laugh alot, love much. I can, I will, I must because I am WORTH it.

Mar 05, 2013
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Emily, your dad is deeply troubled and sadistic. It's good that you got out of that house because he's too dangerous to be trusted. as for your mom, she can't be trusted neither because, well, it's a shame that she decided to be like him. Oh, and you're none of those soul-stripping lies that they fed to you.

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