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Oct 09, 2010
Ellen:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. But just for the record, none of what happened was your fault. NONE OF IT. Fault lies SOLELY on the shoulders of your father.

And to my other visitors, please DO NOT attempt to do what Ellen did. Her story is one of the most unusual I've ever read in such cases. Striking back at a violent parent could lead to serious injury; and YOU would likely be the one charged with an offense, not the violent parent.

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Oct 10, 2010
It's amazing: It's still a mystery: Saying it is just human nature is not the answer:
by: maurice

They say ignorance is bliss especially to those who no no better: Is it? I wonder at times: No child should ever be put in such a froam of mind that they don't want to hurt their parenets: Because Ellen that is what your cruel father was doing to you in all his outburts of his anger, his ungodly behaviour to you his loving beautiful daughter and child: and to your siblings: No one in their right mind would condone what he did to you but more so to your sister: As for your sister stomping on her came from his wrong: She saw nothing unduly wrong stomping: It was not your fault: I am not to blame: I know you loved your dad: Great he changed to the level he acknowledged he was wrong: You will still need to be helped to make a better sense of it all so that you won't be living with a false sense of your dad's behaviour: Cherish and love the dignity of each child is a Parents duty: Throwing the bible at one's child ain't showing much Love or respect: These are the feelings that welled up in me as I read your very honest discriptive heartfelt feelings you have and had for your Dad: speak with a counsellor at some stage you'll be all the better for it: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much: beginning and ending with yourself first: Your dad is to be respected for his honest efforts to say sorry and change his way of thinging and being to you all: especially you Ellen: Stay safe: Be safe: Darlene's comment will help you:

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