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Mar 28, 2010
Elizabeth:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Keep telling until someone helps you. Contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
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From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Mar 28, 2010
NO FEAR ,
by: Anonymous

oh, i can see you are really upset and well, even saying it typing it upsets you.

you can be emancipated , in most states . at seventeen you dont have to be around him at all
and or i would go away from him somehow, boarding school or internship, free and or job corps, if you are around him. still. never alone. or where he can hurt you and did he get punished for this. you said told , if not , why
if you told, free the family too of him.
all of you free then, then rest of your life is yours with normal people and family that loves you or you make a new family after you are grown more. what you told me sounds familiar, like a type of situation taking someone innocent saying heart hurts i think i remember someone in my family saying this thier heart hurt to see how they would react like a cute thing, humm i wonder
that would be yes the monster , and congradulations for telling someone , you made it to that point and survived and can tell now
and remember do not be scared , you are a women now technically and you can do anything you want to with your life it s your life not his life yours. period. i dispise someone who would take the word heart, and a kind little child sweet and trick them like its funny thing and then be a monster. wierdo too he is not you remember that
one thing in life i learned is that being a women being a female and well a young person especailly and someone i guess you call vunerable
anyone for that matter , others take advantage of you. or try to. so being strong enough to stand up for yourself and be strong no matter what the threat or worry is very very important
what do you call it NO FEAR i think thats it
young people the no fear logo, thats it. remember no fear, each step you take closer to freedom, and the independanct logo too i think things like sport s and skateborders they use those things as motives, to acomplish things hard to do. sports people too , like when you work out and its hard to do that last sit up or push up. its work to be free of the burden the monster put on you. but each step you take it will feel good each burden off your shoulders that shouldnt have been on it to begin with
dont let that monster control you and god is on your side and others you dont even know and will be when you tell each time how ever you decide and when and how you do it. and your guardian angels they are here with you too. what you said , well, i have heard that too from past , saying see you hurt my heart, how dare that monster do that to you. and well next you will have to understand he has no power now and also you are grown and well he is sick very sick shouldnt be around anyone , you either, best thing . for you . or those love you or those in family as far as i am concered. and for his heart well he had no heart , not even a soul
god and you and normal people know this
and if you keep telling these monsters other monsters they wont get away with this anymore other ones .



Mar 28, 2010
contin, no fear and LION KING SONG
by: Anonymous

no fear again advice, i wanted to say the rest i couldnt fit it, you could do a fundrasier in your honor on valentine day and do a internship to get away, and a candie striper who helps people who really need to have heart healed and sick, the job corps too and i wanted to say about knowing someone who also said that" here oh you hurt my heart" said to my child,
i wonder looking back now and if i found out i would back up anyone in my family positive and
my dad said when i was young he was a normal dad, we back you up 100 percent and i wanted to say that to you too, and that i was special each day you should say to yourself, you are special as he did to me, and then there is a song its a lion king song , called i ll be in your heart, about the good brother and also the adopted mom, they split up you know about animals in jungle.
and prayer each night say a prayer to be strong and each night i will pray for you so it will be powerful and you gain strenth you need from this web site and from others helping you , your new life.

Mar 28, 2010
heart story hit home for me, i keep your story in my prayers , you as well
by: Anonymous

no fear comment , one last thing, when you were an infant he broke your arm why didnt someone do something, the mom or family or the doctor ,how did you know he broke it, who should have been there for you back then , the doctor maybe you should go back and sue the doctor , why didnt he help your mom or who ever didnt know about this.
what happen did anyone come help you , see i know people they dont even do stuff at all and end up agencys come and all they are good parents
how could your arm have been broken then and no one tell or know, i cant understand. i would also hold them accountable the doctor and find out why your mom didnt help or if she understood how to help herself or did she later
and then in that case i understand about the agencys they have to have physical proof, but
that would have been the proof later that doctor report it doesnt matter that it happen as infant
a legal person can tell you that. there is the proof right there. you can get legal help now too
ok , i guess what you said hit a nerve, i too had someone say to child , hear , you heart my heart , or listen to my heart and the thought of that happen to you, well i am sorry , and i wish all good and love and happiness to you, and if i could help you i would, i think just the word heart envolved , i want to shoot thru the roof the fact he did that to you, but great you are on your way , and going to be ok i know it,
you are one going to be in my heart that is for sure you really hit on something here for me
i pray each day for you remember this when you pray too. god helps those help themselves.

Apr 07, 2010
thanks
by: Anonymous

thanks everyone

Apr 28, 2010
this is me liz the victum
by: Anonymous

thanks for all your word of encorgement. its nice knowing someone cares and i have come a long way form my father foster care and new friends and people who care about me. my 1 teacher stearts me so nice its so amazing to be told its not your fault so thanks

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