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Dec 01, 2007
I applaud you . . .
by: Darlene Barriere - webmaster

Getting help, D.J., is the kindest, most self-respectful act you can do for yourself AND your children. You deserve to live a life free of obsessing, free of paranoia, free of panic attacks. Your children deserve to have their mother happy, healthy and obsession-free.

And with regard to not leaving your children with anyone unless you totally trust them; that's not being "paranoid"; that's being prudent! I give you a standing ovation for using your good sense as their mother!

I am concerned when you say you will "never expose your abuser." What if he is doing to his children—or other children—what he did to you?

Dec 03, 2007
I feel you :)
by: Anonymous

I'm soo soo sorry. I can't believe anyone would do that to you! I mean you're soo cute. :). It's just not fair. :(.

Dec 04, 2007
My Daughter
by: Anonymous

Hello,

I have recently been through this experience with my daughter 16 and her cousin 18. This abuse went on from when she was 4 or 5 till 16 when she finally had the courage to tell me.

I did report him to the police and we went to court. Unfortunately she didn't receive the support she needed from her fathers side as it was his sister's son that was the abuser. Thankfully my daughter has opened up and will talk about it. As a survivor myself i realize how important it is to let this "cancer" out of you otherwise it will rot you and your life and in turn will affect all that is around you.

Please keep talking about what happened to you. You don't have to reveal this man that hurt you however you do need to cut out the "cancer" that he infected you with.

Be strong Much love and prayers for you.. xo

Dec 04, 2007
i think you should report him
by: Anonymous

dnt u think you should report him incase he does this to his own family xxxx

Dec 10, 2007
me too
by: caylee

hi im 16 and on june 16th 2007 i went through some of the same kind of stuff you did i was raped by my uncle and he would always say ill give you some alchohol or money or somethin till one night he didnt offer me anything he was drunk he did to me what he pleased ive been in the mental hosbital and gotton alot of the help i needed the detectives are trying hard to get him locked up but i admire you for getting through it like you did i think thats great:]

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