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Jan 09, 2011
Debbi:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You are very strong. You found a way out of that abusive environment. I commend you for finding that intestinal fortitude, and for not repeating the cycle of abuse. As you move through the various ages and stages of your life, you may find that some of what you endured comes back to haunt you in some way. If you find the effects of the abuse rise to the surface, I strongly recommend some form of counseling. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jan 10, 2011
Continue to be strong: Be brave: Always believe in yourself
by: maurice

I highly recommend some form of counselling: These real words from Darlene's heart Debbie K. Don't take them too lightly: You'll be a winner, you'll be successful, you endured alot as one very vunerable child like all children who are abused: Your story brings out the truth about child abuse because for me you hit the nail on the head: The vunerability and the insecurity a child is in during that precious time of the little lives: When tnhey should be loved and cherished they the complete opposite is happening them: Their bodies, minds, are being corrupted by sick people some more sicker than others: I have a thing between mothers and their children especially if they are their daughters: Mothers who abuse their daughters are real abusers, little beasts: I would put mothers who abuse their daughters on a higher scale of abuse than even Fathers abusing: Don't get me wrong ABUSE is wrong, completely no matter the perpetrator of it: But mothers to me who hurt, humiliate, abuse is dispickable: They carry a lovely child knitting together ever so naturally and beautifully, then birthed and a few years later that mother is treating their baby like a piece of: Sad, very sad, Debbie K you are a winner, love yourself, value yourself, be proud of yourself because you were ever so brave and strong: You stayed in education through the harsh times you had to endure at the hands of your mother: Sadly your sister did not cope with it as strongly as you: Maybe in time she too will write her way of dealing with it and get some form of counselling: Hi Debbie K. you stay safe NOW: Live your life to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes Debbie K I highly reccomnd you become active and alive in taking part with your own age group and gender in Team Sports: and sporting and cultural activities: It will do you a power of good: You will make natural and real friends for life, you'll have sound aquaintances from among your team mates: Your gifted: you have tallents and leadership qualities so share them with others: Be gentle and kind to yourself and that beautiful body of yours: Soothe it from time to time with oils and cream massasing love into it: Then walk tall: walk straight: walk the world right in the Eye: Your the bestest Debbie K

Mar 20, 2011
talk to someone
by: Anonymous

after reading your story I notice how resilient and strong you are. you have such wonderful spirit. you should still talk to someone, a counselor or find out where they offer free counseling in your community. if you can try to continue your education in any way, do things to enhance your life and communicate with people that have gone through the same things, maybe you can help them too. I've been a victim of child abuse, my mother use to beat me everyday. but I went to college, got good grades and I constantly try to educate myself by reading books on self improvement. You can do it too. Don't give up and keep your head up high!!

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