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Mar 18, 2011
Dannii:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

That same strength you showed by turning your abuser in to the authorities you will need to face your fears. It's all still raw right now. Just stay in counseling, and be open and honest during your sessions. When you are honest with you feelings and emotions, truly honest with them, you can allow yourself to feel them fully; and when that happens, they will let you go. That's when you'll feel liberated, but it's a process, Dannii, a grueling one; one that you're most definitely worthy of. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 19, 2011
Try talking to your dad
by: Anonymous

Dannii, your mom and your stepdad were so twisted and messed up in their own ways of thinking that they didn't even know how to take care of themselves, never mind be parents to you. Oh, and how dare your "mom" force you to watch her shoot up heroin because doing so is, in fact, child endangerment! You deserved so much better than what those sick excuses for humans did to you. Oh, and I'm glad that you got your sick excuse of a stepdad in prison. You are not to blame for their messed up behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. You were a child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they misused it over you. They should've had the courage to seek as much professional help as they need instead of abusing you. The path that they chose is inexcusable. I'm also glad that your dad is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that; I just hope that you will try counselling.

Mar 20, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Dannii: You'll be fine: Follow Darlene's footsteps in your healing process: I moved in with my birth Dad: whom I have an amazing bond with: Empowering words Dannii: Be safe: stay safe: you deserve the best care: love: protection: so you can live your life to the full each day you wake from your pillow: I am certain with the bond you have with your father you will stay in counselling as Darlene encourages you to: This will empower you to put all those twisted minded people did to you in perspective: You make yourself safe by having a healthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean getting off your bottom: going out to join teams/groups who are into sporting and cultural activities; Team Sports with your own age and gender will open up a whole new horizon in your thinking and being: Yes, you are gifted/tallented with leadership qualities so share them with your team mates: You'll make real and natural friends for life and have loads of aquaintances who'll make you smile when they hi Dannii: You'll be a winner: You are intelliegent, stay in education: LET YOUR MOTTO BE: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUE I AM WORTH IT: Dannii set your dreams and reach for the stars:

Mar 22, 2011
thank you
by: Dannii

thank you everyone for your confidence building comments. i still need some help, i am currently in councelling, however i am finding that more than any of the other issues at hand, i miss my mother, we never really bonded but i still miss her like crazy, and it hits me all the time, how do i stop form bursting into tears?
thank you
Dannii
xx

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