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Jul 15, 2010
You are NOT crazy...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your gut feeling is one that cannot be ignored. It comes from a place you must trust. But please don't be afraid to get help from a counsellor. Always remember that what happened to you was in the past and the past cannot hurt you. This was a lesson I had to learn myself when I was in therapy many years ago. Talking about it and getting the feelings out in a safe environment is just that: safe. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jul 15, 2010
Let Go: But get Help please:
by: maurice

You'll be fine SS once you forllow the loving, trusting, caring heartfelt wortds from Darlene: She truly knows best: That past can't hurt us any more but the effects of what happened us during those years can: Your know what happened to you was wrong: Nothing you could even though you tried abuse happened: It was never ever your fault: Don't blame yourself: Don't carry the fears and doubts about it any more: Begin to day just to do what Darlene knows will help you move on: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much beginning with your wonderful and beautiful self: Think Positive: act positive: be positive in all you do and say: Darlene was a winner over abuse so she knows exactly the road you must take right now and let go of your doubts and fears: It will take time but once you begin to tell your feeling in a safe place to a counsellor you'll quickly put all your feelings of those horrible times for you into perspective: Always believe in yourself: I can: I will: I must because I am WORTH it> You'll be fine live your life to the full with your special friends who value you, love you, resepct you for who you are today in their lives: Learn from the past: Live for the NOW and hope for the future:

Jul 15, 2010
Darlene and Maurice
by: SS

Thank you both for your words, Darlene, I have not read your story, but I will in time, I want to thank you on behalf of all the survivors that write in to this web site, you must have come a remarkably long way in your healing.. so you understand dont you? You understand each and everyone of us. I beleive you are helping,saving,healing and giving back each one of us the love and respect we need/deserve. I cant thank you enough for giving US ALL a voice, I dont know you I dont know any of these brave people and children, but I feel we all belong to a family on this site, its a safe very kind place... I cant tell you how much that means

Maurice, you write in with such encouraging words, I dont know your story or your life but whatever has happened you have turned it all to love, thank you for your words of love and support. You are so kind.

Aug 10, 2010
SS
by: Lince

I have had the same problem. My mother molested me and i have blocked out my memorys of that. I dont really want to remember either because i dont want to see her in a different perspective

Aug 14, 2010
Thank you too: You are the bestest:
by: maurice

I was away from the site for a few week because I was moving house: I am settled again, well just settling again, I only arrived ion my new house 3 days ago: I've missed you and all whom I have come to know and empatise with since I told my own story a while ago now: Great to read your Thanks wonderful and true person: I we are indebted to Darlene for her vision, words of love and support and real help if we act on her woman's heart comments to each of her visitors: She's the greatest: I pray and hope you are living your life to the full and still letting go of all the hutt and pain done to you: Always believe in yourself: You be always in charge of your own life and destiny: Hi LOVE yourself:

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