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May 27, 2010
Concrete Angel:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It wasn't your fault. Period. End of story. You will never convince me otherwise. Some day you will look at an 8-year-old and understand how such a small young child could NEVER have stopped what was happening. Some day you'll realize that you were not to blame. Some day you will understand that blame goes squarely on the shoulders of your abuser. I hope that some day is today. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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May 27, 2010
tell on him
by: Scott 1

What an awful story Angel, and how brave you are to tell it to the world. A great first step. This is a safe place to tell.

You were so little and fragile and this piece of crap forced himself on you. Surely you've told the authorities and gave then his name. He has to be stopped. He is most certainly doing the exact same thing to yet another little 8 year old girl right now!! A little girl just like you were!!
You can stop it from happening to another. Please consider telling on him. Your brave enough to do it..for you and the other little children he has raped, and is raping, and will soon rape.

It is not your fault!! It was never your fault!! He took off YOUR clothes against YOUR will. HE did it all....to you!! You were just watching tv and starved for affection. Again ..not your fault.

May 27, 2010
Reply to Scott 1:
by: ConcreteAngel

No, I have not told the authorities. It turns out my mom lied to me. He didn't move, but instead, killed himself. Thank you so much, though, for reading my story and trying to help.

May 28, 2010
I am the Best: I am Special: I am a winner:
by: Maurice

Always believe in yourself The word concrete is not sitting easy with me so Gentle, Kind, gifted, tallented, angelic ANGEL You are a blessed child of God and the Universe: Please read and hear what you wrote ever so positively about yourself, (quote) I am blessed with a few great friends that help me through each day: They stand by my side and want to help no matter how stuborn I can be: They've done so much for me: I did not even ask for it, They've helped me open up and fight my past: ''WOW' You have ANGELS around you and you are the center of their love, care, concern, respect, valueing. They sure are the best: You with their support will be a winner over your past: You with them will get the help you need to let go of that Bad, Bad, Man who left you feeling traumatised, fearful, scared, frightened, dirty because of his raping of you at his every whim: He preyed on your innocence and vunerability: He was a beast of a man: You have a big heart of flesh, not a heart of stone or concrete: You are gentleness: You are kindness: you are who you want to be NOW with a little (lott) of help from your friends: They know YOU: With friends like those Angel you'll be the best: NOW ANGEL: You read Darlene's comment a few times: let her words saok into that beautiful body/heart of yours: Hug and cuddle them into you in front of the mirror and yes your friends: Her woman's heart is in each word writtent to you: The will empower you, help you, Oh yes she truly has re-assured you all that happened you was not your fault: Look in that mirror and say I am (was) not to blame: I was helpless, fearful of telling my mom because he put that false fear into me, I was only a beautiful child and he ruined it by abusing my most precious beautiful natural parts of my body: Angel, teenager, young thinking intelligent adult Love that body of yours: be gentle and kind to it: Massage the most scented of oils, creams, all over it and into it: You are naturally gifted, beautiful, Always believe that about yourself ANGEL of flesh: Now Angel with your friends and others begin having a healthy mind in a healthy body: This will mean getting off your bottom and become active and alive in sporting and cultural activities; No excuses Angel: THINK POSITIVE: ACT POSITIVE: BE POSITIVE IN ALL YOU DO AND SAY ABOUT YOURSELF: Those fab cool friends of yours will be your team mates: I can assure you a whole new world will open up for you ANGEL; Say hi to a counsellor if you get the chance, you will put all your doubts/fears in perspective if you do: Set your goals, your horizons by letting go of your past bad experiences that were not of your making: Now sit on your bottom, lie on your bed and read Darlene's comment to you: Live well, laugh alot, love much: I will, I can, I must, because I am WORTH it.

Jun 02, 2010
not so good
by: Anonymous

this is aweful i never thoght people would do that Did they just take the child to beat him or her i never thought this would ever happen before somebody should do something about it.

Nov 06, 2011
sad story
by: Anonymous

i have a friend who was sort of in the same situation i won't put her name but. She told no one about the story till a few years later. I was so sad because it seemed that she was okay. But when she told me I was heart broken so your story touched me. I hope you read this even though it was quite of long ago.

Oct 28, 2012
I'm here.
by: Hannah

I'm a 15 yet old who was told to look up the song. It's not fair what you had to go threw an my friend had te same thing happen other but at a younger age.

Mar 27, 2013
...
by: Cayla, and Autumn

We read your story and feel so bad for you!!! We loved the song and video. This explained alot to us. You were such a strong, and brave little girl having to take care of you and your little brother while you had to go through abuse, and rape. Keep being strong, and if you are a little kid reading this that goes through abuse or rape or know someone else that goes through it be strong, and stand up for yourself or them1!!!!!

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