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Jun 20, 2011
Cindy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

For the sake of you and your baby, before your baby is born, please seek out some form of counselling in order to deal with the repercussions of what you endured at both the hands of your mother and father. Your baby deserves a healthy and stable mother, and you deserve to get help for the terrible mistreatment you received. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 20, 2011
Such uncontrolled sadism
by: Anonymous

Cindy, you were given a raw, crappy deal. Your so-called parents are so twisted in their own ways of thinking that they didn't even know how to take care of themselves, not to mention be parents to you. Your so-called mom is a truly sadistic brute; her slimy husband is nothing but a disgusting pig of a pervert and I am glad that they are incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because, first of all, you did nothing wrong; second of all, something's seriously wrong with them; third of all, abusers do not stop until they are forced to stop. Oh, and they are wrong. You are not a "horny little sl*t", you are a good, beautiful person...and it is your so-called dad who chose to offend you. You are not worthless; you are worthy of love, dignity and respect, all of which you were sadistically denied of. Oh, and barbarically burning you with cigarettes and using you as an ashtray is a really cowardly thing to do because only cowards would do such things to such an innocent, helpless little girl you once were. If they didn't want to be there, then they should've had the courage to give you up for adoption instead of sadistically abusing you. The path that they chose for themselves was and still is inexcusable. You are not to blame for their sadistic, ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse and offend you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you. I'm glad that you're in a safe place now and that your fiance is with you now because he is so sweet for doing that; I just hope that you try counselling and that your ignorant beasts for parents remain incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you.

Jun 28, 2011
be brave: Be Strong: Love your beautiful Self
by: Maurice

Cindy L you have come to the right safe haven site to begin your process of real healing from all those bad, bad, horrible unreal, inhuman cruel sadistic parents did to you in your innocent vunerable stages of childhood and adolencence: You are one brave young woman to search for and find Darlene's site: She has given you a true heart comment: Please follow her loving advice and words to you: Be safe: Stay safe for yourself and your child: Be strong in yourself to get the counselling that Darlene knows will benefit you and your child when you birth him/her: Begin loving the beautiful and good you: What you endured at the hands of those sadsitic beasts will take you time and courage to let go of the effects and memories but let go you must: I hope your partner is a true and real friend who will LOVE you and your child valueing, respecting, supporting being gentle and kind on you as you journey through whatever healing you need to from that horrific past of yours: Be safe: Stay Safe: You have a child now too so you have to watch out for two now instead of one: You will do it and your baby will be your inner strength to make you think and get help through some form of counselling: Hi, also have a friend or friends your own age and gender who'll be there for you: Love and cherish you: You know you'll be safe sharing your real feelings especially a mammys waiting feeling while that beauty is being knitted together in your womb: be gentle and kind on yourself: protect yourself and the baby during your pregnancy: I WILL I CAN I MUST BECAUSE WE ARE BOTH WORTH IT: become part of a young mother group: stay healthy: have a healthy mind in a healthy body: I am sure young pregnant mommys have all the know hows as to exercise and be healthy while waiting for their beautiful creation to be born; You Cindy L have endured abuse horrific physical and sexual from the two people who should have loved and cherished you: They left you in pain from the effects of it all: Darlene has given you a woman's heart re-assuring words to begin to live your life to the full so you and baby will have a good healthy and happy life from the beginnings and after that birth: Cindy I, darlene and anonymous want what is the best for you: We also know that is what you want for yourself and your beauty being formed within you: Please love yourself enough and follow the advice of Darlene; She knows what is the best for you at this time:

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