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Apr 08, 2011
Cindy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. May the path of healing and recovery you've chosen continue to move you forward in your life.

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Apr 09, 2011
he is great
by: michelle f

I prayed for help out to he brung me thru,GOD IS WONDERFUL I am blessed to hear he helped you to praise him for he deserves all the glory

Apr 10, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Cindy: great you have found yourself in the LORD GOD: Your acceptance and believe that HE will protect you and keep you safe will empower you to grow, mature and live your life to the full: I pray that you have a real friend or two who will walk with you: Value you: Respect You: appreciated your giftedness: tallents: Your Special, unique in your own right: I believe some form of counselling will benefit you in putting all you wrote to Darlene and her Visitors in perspective: Yes the power of God's Spirit will empower you us but we also need to help ourselves in the light of that Spirit: God, does spaeak to us in and through each other: Prayer keeps us close to God's LOVE and helps us to Love one another as he has loved us: Sadly abusers don't value a God in their lives otherwise they would never abuse the innocent, vunerable, children, adolecents: All of us who were abused need help from counselling & Thereapy: Think about it Cindy: GOD IS WITH YOU: My prayer is with you too that you will be safe, secure and happy in living well: laughing alot and loving much: Be true to yourself: Be true to God: Be true to your friends:

From Darlene - Webmaster: With all due respect, Maurice, many of the people who abuse their children do so with the belief that God has given them permission. And they site the Bible, quoting so-called scripture when doing so. So please don't make such sweeping statements when the world is filled with so-called God-loving or God-fearing people who are in fact child abusers who use religion to harm their children.

Apr 21, 2011
Lost People
by: Linda

Darlene is correct in saying, people use religion and God to abuse their victims as an excuse to justify their crime. Child abuse is a crime! But these are "RELIGOUS PEOPLE", who have NEVER been truly saved by the grace of God. These religous abusers have satan's evil in their hearts. Anyone can say their they're religous. TRUE CHRISTIANS, saved by the grace and mercy of God, despise child abusers and pray for their souls. Cindy as a fellow christian, saved by God's mercy, I will pray for you! And remember, the abuse you endured was not your fault. A true christian puts their faith in God, not the world. Pray to him and he will heal you from the pain. God Bless You.........Linda

Apr 22, 2011
Great and good news: A friend in need is a friend indeed Great Women
by: maurice

So please don't make sweeping statements when the World is filled with so called God Loving or God Fearing people who are in fact child abusers who use religion to harm children: Darlene to Maurice
Sadly abusers don't value God in their lives. Otherwise they would never Abuse Children: Now: Darlene with all due respects in your opinion that is a sweeping statement. I was abused by a man of Religion who did so believeing that God had given him permission and citing the bible etc: I could not agree more with you Darlene that many abusers did use the Bible, quoting from etc to abuse children: I accept totally alot of abuse happened and was done in the name of God: The World knows The Church Scandals: They also know that the greater area of abuse happened in families with church approval as most Fathers beat and abused their children in the name of God because of a particular Churches Male Dominance concept of God: The Father being the bread winner and the provider for their families: I lived through the years, of wait until your Father comes home mentality: There are many reading this who felt his belt or fists humiliating his children and taking away their dignity and self respect: Thank you Darlene: Forgive me if I came across as making sweeping statements: Totally un-intentional if that is how my comment was read: Thank you Cindy: you helped the air to be cleared regarding GOD's REAL LOVE>> UNCONDITIONAL LOVE for each of us His Children

Apr 22, 2011
Horrible world!
by: Linda

Again I say; People who use religion to abuse helpless victims are not CHRISTIANS! They are lost as a goose in a snowstorm. Be it preachers, the Pope, priests , deacons , elders, choir singers, or ministers. If they are not saved through Jesus Christ our Lord and savior and live for him, they will do evil things! There is only one God and One Bible. Child abuse ia sin and a crime against helpless children and young adults. If the whole world were saved by the grace of God, we would have no child abusers, child molesters, rapists, baby killers and the list would go on. This is a horrible world we live in. Where evil people like child abusers are allowed to roam our streets. Cindy you sound like a brave person and your faith in God will help you through..........Bless you.....Linda

Apr 29, 2011
my story of my pass life was not about religion!!!!
by: cindy

However to me you all are missing the point so let me explain the people who had abuse me form childhood and in my teens did not belong to a church or had any form of Godlessness.It had been a difficult time in my life and my husband but we did manger to overcome what I had been true because of the grace of God.I wrote my story and published it for young woman like my self to know that don't matter what abuse they may be facing or have been true or still in there is alway hope true the one and only God which is JESUS CHRIST...With out God we are nothing 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! THANK YOU ALL FOR READING AND REMEMBER THAT THERE IS SOMEONE WHO LOVE YOU...THATS GOD!!! P.S I am praying for you all who have been true abuse like my self.Stay strong and God bless you all...

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