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Nov 24, 2010
Charlotte:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

TELL! For God sake TELL! I don't care if he's your cousin; he's a sex offender, a rapist. And he is likely raping other girls as well. I'm sorry to be the one to say this to you...your friends aren't being true friends by keeping the secret. A true friend would tell in a nano-second, because true friends would never allow a friend to continue to live with this terrible secret. Much as you don't understand that at this point in your life, there will come a time when you do. This will not get better for you unless you get help. You can't be concerned about the trouble your cousin will get into; he's already in trouble, and that trouble was as a result of his own doing. He certainly didn't care about you. TELL YOUR PARENTS. And if they don't listen, keep telling until an adult does listen. You see, your cousin won't stop raping girls until he's made to stop. You don't want to learn later in life that he sexually offended others, and that you could have prevented those sexual assaults by telling. And no matter what, always remember that you are not to blame. This is on your cousin, not you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 27, 2010
Hello
by: Anonymous

Next time at least if you can you should tell your mom at least.

Nov 29, 2010
Be Brave: Be strong. Tell on HIM: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST
by: maurice

Charlotte R: If you have two real friends you are ever so blessed and lucky: Lift the secret pact you made with them so that as three friends you will be helped to tell on this bad, bad cousin: He choose and more than likely knew exactly the position he put you in when he raped you: Don't be afraid as that is what he wants you to be: Be brave: Be strong Tell on him: your friends will stand by you: Explain Darlene's comment to them: Charlotte R her comment is so beautiful honest and from her heart to yours: You came on her site for one reason and that was to get the best of advice: She truly has given you loving, encouraging and helpful words to ponder and ACT on: You'll do what you know to be the best for all concerned especially with the real fear that he is sexually abusing other beautiful innocent, vulnerable little girls: You sure don't want that Charlotte R: He'll make his own excuses you don't need to be making any for him: He abused you he took away your dignity by all he did to you: You parents especially your mother will stand by you: Love and cherish you: If you find it hard to tell them then get the advice from a school counselor or helpful trusting teacher in you school: Your two friends will hold your hand: Be safe: Stay safe: Hi, Charlotte R with your friends and class mates have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Get out there taking part in team sports and sporting and cultural activities: You'll make real friends for life and have many genuine acquaintance: Team sports are great for your age group: You get the opportunity to display your giftedness and your talents: Even be a leader in your own right: Hi you are one highly intelligent teenager Please read Darlene's Comment: you'll be fine and you'll do what you know to be the best for you and your future happiness

Feb 27, 2011
I Told
by: Charlotte

Thanks to everyone who posted back I told a month ago and its now sorted

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