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Mar 29, 2010
Cat:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Mar 29, 2010
Keep Away!
by: Linda

Cat, your story touched me deeply. I was also molested by a family member I loved. They are the SCUM of the earth. Stay as far away from your father as you can get! He will do the same thing with his grandchildren when the opportunity arises. You probably wasn't the first child he molested. He has something terrible wrong with his mind to do such a horrible thing to his own child. Your mother should have had him arrested. Good luck to you and your children.

Mar 30, 2010
stories about black mail and caution
by: Anonymous

you told you mom and she didnt help you
terrible

you are lucky you have such a nice family now and over it
the wife must have been nuts, i stayed and your mom , if my daughter told me someone abused her
well she needs to have the police or a counselor present no telling what i would do .
mothers protect , not hide lie an secrets

and the child how horribel and how honorable thaqt you still became a mom

you really did wow, even after that you must be strong an determeined person in life
became a mom anyway that is something else

didnt let it rob you of life yours


Apr 20, 2010
Why, oh Why, do fathers ruin their children little lives
by: maurice

Cat 1, my heart goes out to you after reading your story. Your Father ruined your life, he abused you sexually at the most tender years of your life. He did not leave it at that he preyed of your younger sister ruining her life too. Father's who abuse there children need to be isolated from their family for a long period of life. Then and only then can they make a sense of what they really have done to their beautiful children. The effects never leave their children. Cat 1 you were brave, you were strong, you managed to get on with your life, meet a true man and now have two beautiful children. Keep them safe, find the appropriate time to share with them what you have been living with all your life. Their Grandfather should not be let sit comfortably while they shower Love on him. He is still living in denial. while you are still effected by what he did to you. Cat 1 a chat with a counsellor will assist you to let go so that you can live well, laugh alot, love much and live the rest of your life to the full. You deserve the best. Stay strong. Always believe in yourself. be gentle and kind to yourself. LOVE and be loved by those who matter most to you NOW in your life. Family life when you and I were children were somewhat unreal as the father of the house were the bread-winners automatically making him the head of the house. Daily i am hearin now many abused that honour. Children loved out of fear not out of love. Making children like you confused. He was bad but because he was your father you liked him more so than loved him. He was a Bad Father, He abused you, took away your virginity. He was a bad man.

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