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Feb 24, 2010
Cassandra:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

There fear you feel about any of the abuse being your fault is unwarranted. It is NOT your fault. It will never BE your fault. Fault lies solely on the shoulders of the abuser. Period. End of story. I won't entertain even so much as a thought that you might be to blame. So get rid of that notion. Talk to your family doctor. Tell him/her that you need help dealing with all the repercussions of growing up in such an unhealthy environment. See if there is a way for you to get into some form of counselling without having to pay out of pocket for it. You didn't deserve to grow up with such abuse. You DO deserve help now that you have. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 24, 2010
A pedophile for a father...and a vicious beater for a stepmother
by: Anonymous

Cassandra, your "stepmother" is wrong. You are not ugly; you are beautiful. You are not stupid; you are smart and articulate. You are not worthless; you are worthy of love, care, respect and dignity. What that twisted loser scum of a stepmother did to you is truly inexcusable and sadistic because she is truly insane and really should be locked up with her slimy husband (your dad, to be exact) together. I also really hope that you are in a safe place now when you came into a foster care after getting away from those brutes for parents. You might also want to tell someone you really trust.

Feb 26, 2010
I Feel You.
by: Dan1

Cassandra I completely understand where you're coming from when you say you don't trust anyone. I'm having trust issues aswell. What happend to you was NEVER your fault. I was molested at 13 maybe not quite like you were but it was enough to view all adults as rapists. Even as of today (now 21) I still can't seem to meet people without thinking to myself that they're prabably rapists. I don't have kids but I pray to god to bless me with kids of my own someday. But I do have a lot of little cousins. There are times when I see 1 of them ask their parents for permission to go to their friends house and I start getting negative thoughts in my head about them getting abused by their friends parents. I know I'am over reacting. But I can't help it. I feel that I should protect my younger relatives. I don't want them to go through what I went through. I start to get nervous and I always want to suggest my uncles not to let them go but like isaid maybe I'm just over reacting.

Feb 26, 2010
You are not alone
by: Mary4

I know what it's like to have a parent use you and then give you to other people for their pleasure. Most parents protect their children not recieve pleasure from their pain

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