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Nov 19, 2009
Your father is a liar and a sex offender, and your mother enabled him...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you, Carter for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I'm very glad that writing your story is helping. Feel free to write as often as you feel the need. Always remember that forgiveness does not mean that what happened to you was okay. And it also does not mean that you must have a relationship with your parents. Forgiveness is about letting go of the hostility and fear you have for the person who abused you. It is in that letting go that you are free.

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Nov 19, 2009
Why?
by: BMW Princess

Why would anyone do that?
10 year olds cannot seduce. Anyone who says they can is a freak! No child should have to go through that. Child molesters are freaks! Anyone who FEEls seduced by a 10 year old is a freak. A perv. There is no excuse to molest a child.
I'm sorry
Peace
BMW pricess

Nov 20, 2009
wow!
by: paola<3

when i was berly reading this i couldnt take my eyes off how can that be thats so stupid of yur father i give yu so much props for riting this down it tooks alot of guts!!im proud of yu!!:)
and yur mom for not beliveing yu is stupid of her too!!

Nov 20, 2009
Sick bastards derserve to die!
by: Anonymous

It's absolutely no surprise that boys are victims of debased cruel mistreatment! I'm not sorry at all that I express anger against the son of a b* who damaged Carter's childhood life! Carter, I feel for you, but sick bastards like that so-called "father" of yours deserve to die!!!

Nov 22, 2009
Don't Blame God. He did not want your father to abuse you
by: maurice

Carter, well done, you found Darlene's safe place to tell your story to her and her many visitors. She truly is a light in the Darkness for all of her visitors. God's instrument to share HIs love with all who accept and believe in a higher power than that of the Human Being. All Faith's sadly have their abusers of children and the young in all it's forms. Your Father used you and did abuse you, He did you an injustice during your innocent and vunerable years of childhood. Your mother was no help to you. She was a weak mother. a weak woman who allowed co-operated with your father in his abuse of you. God had no hand act or part in your abuse. Great you crossed path's with Roxanne, She is a friend, you related, shared, trusted her with your abuse and your gut feelings around it. Carter, forgiveness will come but not immediately, you have to work through the hurt and pain your father perverted on you. I pray with Roxanne that you will get help to work through it all. Please find a counsellor at your college with the help of Roxanne. Together you'll benefit from her support and encouragement. Prayer is a space that we followers of Christ benefit from. God is LOVE. you are his child He loves you unconditionally. He loves us all unconditionally. Only when we acknowledge and Believe it and HIM. God loves us in the Roxanne's and all who genuinely care about our welbeing in a good way. Sadly even those who believed in God abused in his name. They did not live by his Commandments/guidelines to do always what was good for their children or those entrusted to their care. I had a reliegious dedicated man who physically abused me. Carter, you are one very blessed human being having crossed Roxanne path and she yours. Always believe in yourself, love yoursefl, value yourself, respect yourself first safeguard your own dignity as one very special, unique person. Letting go of the image your father created in you during his abuse of you will take time. Begin today. Look at that hunk of a man in the MIRROR. go on say all the nicest of things to yourself. what your father made dirty by his abuse you make beautiful, be gentle on yourself, care for your every need. hug yourself era go on it is a wholesome thing for us males to do from time to time. Then let those real people whom you trust and respect who equally trust and respect you now for who you are HUG you. There is life after abuse Carter. Don't Quit believeing in yourself. forgiveness will happen only when you are ready to forgive and it will make sense to you. My Prayers are with you

Nov 24, 2009
writing helps
by: Lois ducharme

I will read your continued story should you write it. I found that getting things out is a really great help. Forgiveness is powerful but you must stop him from hurting you. perhaps you have. I'll wait and read on.

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