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Jan 10, 2010
Bella:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You didn't deserve to be abused as a child. You don't deserve to be abused as an adult. You've just taken the first step by admitting you are worthy of a quality relationship. The second step it getting out. But trust starts within you. You must build your self-esteem and believe—REALLY BELIEVE—you are worthy of dignity and respect. Only then will you choose someone who will treat you with dignity and respect. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Jan 12, 2010
BAD, BAD, MAN, BEAST OF PREY ON THE INNOCENT
by: maurice

Bella 1. That man you call Uncle does not deserve the name or even to be called a member of the Human Family. What he did to you belongs to the animal side of him. No close relation has the right to take away a child's beautiful innocence. Through abuse many have lost their dignity, their bodies have been molested by Adults much stronger and sick. Bella 1 please keep re-assuring YOURSEFL IT WAS NOT MY FAULT. I was innocent, weak, and vunerable when this brute took it all away. Then my so called husband equally a beast took advantage of me instead of protecting and loving me. There is life after abuse. Darlene's site has proved this, firstly in her own life and then to many visitors she has helped just with her encourageing words of love, support and asking them to take action and continue the process they have begun by relating their story on her site. Requesting them to take positive action and talk to real people who will listen to them. I am sure you know a service, a counsellor, a therapist near you that will just do that for you BELLA 1. Today, begin working at getting your life back together because I AM WORTH IT. I can, I will, I must just for me. Hi Bella 1 I am sure you have another in your life that you call friend. Real friend. we humans are in need of same. One who you have related the most intimate of how you felt when that uncle used you and abused. That friend is a golden nugget in your life. let him/her walk with you in seeking the help you need right now to get your own life back on track. Easier said than done, but there is real help out there for you but you must keep getting off your bottom and go out and find it. Happier days for you in 2010. OK

Feb 25, 2010
you
by: Recovering

bella.. i was a victim for many many many years.. repeatedly by a few different people family and friends... so was my sister... my heart goes out to you and and lots of love to your weary soul... reach deep deep inside and know that you can claw your way out inch by inch because you are you and the only person that can help you with the healing really is you... thats the hardest bit.. knowing that its you that has to do it.. but you can and you willxx good luckxx

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