Comments for Child Abuse Story From Becca

Click here to add your own comments

Jan 07, 2011
Becca:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm so glad you told, and I'm delighted that your sex offender of a father is now in prison for what he did to you. Indeed, you were blessed with your mother's support; what ALL mothers need to remember when their child reveals sexual abuse. And though you've received some justice for what this sex offender did to you, I still strongly recommend some form of counseling in order to help you deal with the repercussions. You didn't deserve to be sexually abused, Becca. You deserve help now that you have. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Jan 08, 2011
be brave: Be Strong: Love your beautiful Self
by: maurice

Reading through your story that was a monster: a sex offender: a beast: 3 points, 1 You told someone: 2 Your mother loved and cherished you and stood by you: Believed you, Great Mom: 3 Now: you searched for and found Darlene place of new beginnings: Oh yes Becca: You'll be fine once you follow her loving, supporting, encourageing heartfelt words to you: From a woman's heart: a caring heart, please think about and go for counselling: This is the best thought she has put into your head, now take it to your heart and act on that, get some form of counselling: Ok Becca; NOW is the TIME begin your new year lovng and caring about your own welbeing and then you'll pass on real love to those around you: Be safe: Stay safe: have a real friend your own age and gender: most important: one whom you can tell all your secrets to, trust, and talk girlie and womany feelings to: If that is your mother great, but please do have such a friend:

Jan 09, 2011
well done
by: Im a soldier

well done for being so strong now that evil person is locked inside safely away from the public so he cannot harm again. You have been through so much and now you have so much to catch up on, but don't let other people take advantage of you your boundaries have been invaded so it's important for you to redescover those boundaries, if you do not feel like somthing you do not have to do it it is completely up to you.

Jan 10, 2011
survival of the fittest
by: Agnes.K

Though you tried to take your life many times it seems God still needs you here for a purpose. Why not try helping others also who are facing the same ordeal and it will really give you the strength to put such heinous characters behind bars for life. I truly appreciate your strength to relate to us your story and hope that you will help others too to come out and complain. There are those who fear the wrath of the mother and the mother usually sides for her husband. So I am glad your mother took your side. Thank You again and I know you can win all the odds now.

Jan 12, 2011
Disgusting man
by: Jennifer

Why do parents do things like this to their children? I can semi-understand it if they have a mental disease/ disorder which they cannot control...like my mother who abused me. I don't really blame my mother because she was mentally sick. But what is your father's excuse? All those experts who say that Pedophilia is a genetic trait that one is born with are retarded. I bet that if one of their children got raped by a 30 something year old man, that would change their tune. Anyway, thank you for sharing your story. It really touched me.

Jan 12, 2011
They do not understand
by: im a soldier

they do not understand properly about child abuse, my grandfather was or is a paedophle thankfully he is dying I am the result of my mother being sexually abused and my mother thinks paedophillia is sick so do I I could never let a child go through what i have been through.

Feb 15, 2011
Good for You.
by: Zach C

U must be such a strong person to be able to tell everyone what ur dad was doing to u. Now u can move past it and be stronger because of it. Im really happy for u, and I wish I had ur strength.

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Write Your Child Abuse Story.

Return to Child Abuse Story From Becca

Disclaimer: To the best of my knowledge the child abuse
stories on this site are true. While I cannot guarantee
this, I do try to balance the need for the submitter to be
heard and validated with the needs of my visitors.



E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...

Most Recent

  1. The reasons I've been absent

    Nov 14, 17 01:30 PM

    It's been another challenging time for me. As I actively work toward an online program for survivors of sexual abuse, I've also had to deal with issues at home. Hubby has been diagnosed with 2 types o…

    Read More

  2. I Self Medicate

    Jun 26, 17 04:40 PM

    When I was 3 we left Illinois for Arizona. The day we left my grandfather had a heart attack and died. I have one uncomfortable grainy memory of him. I

    Read More

  3. Ongoing Abuse

    Jun 06, 17 03:03 PM

    I'm 15/16. I am still getting abused physically, mentally and verbally by my family especially my mother. I don't understand what to do to overcome this.

    Read More

E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...