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Nov 29, 2009
Talk to someone else about your fears...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Becca, contact the authorities about your concerns. Talk to Child Services. Talk to your school counsellor. Talk to anyone who will listen if you grandmother won't. You do need to discuss your fears. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

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Dec 01, 2009
Please oh Please make a friend, have a friend
by: maurice

Hiya Becca, you brave child of God and the Universe ever so courageous to tell that nurse and sho her your bruises. You are an example to other children. You were afraid as most of them are but you overcame your fear and trusted your school nurse. You are blessed to have a Grandmother who loves and cares about you. But you are right she does not deserve to have the responsibility of minding you against that awful man Called your Father. She needs help, she needs to know you will always be safe. Darlene has given you loving advice, suggestions who to contact and tell all your little or big fears around that abuser/molester of a Father who ruined your innocence by deceiving you by saying I love you. Becca, I am certain you have one or two very special people with your granny who you told what you bad father did to you in trust. Trust yourself, love yourself, respect yourself, be brave and stay strong for yourself. With the help of a friend you will. A friend is someone very special in all of our lifes. One who will always be there for us no matter what happens. Do your best to have a friend. Don't let anyone ever again touch or do anything to you or your body against your will. Live a good life as a teenager, be active and alive with teams, groups, class mates your own age. there is safety in numbers. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. when you mix with your own age group you gain strength and make friends who really care for you. ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. I CAN, I WILL, I MUST. JUST FOR PRETTY ME, BEAUTIFUL AND WONDERFUL ME. HI..Don't forget the advice Darlene gave you in her comment. Talk to your school Nurse/counsellor or someone in Authority. There all there to care and protect you as you mature and grow. Ok Becca, begin today.

Dec 06, 2009
your help
by: Anonymous

im a 13 year old girl who is going to school.. im doin a report which i send to the city councle.i belive hearing your and many other stories will make my argument strong... i think your very brave for wat u have endourd. just remember ur not alone....

Dec 13, 2009
Courage
by: myrlande

Becca I think that is the bravest and most courageous thing you did by telling someone right away and not let it linger and so he could continue to abuse you. Child, have faith because God is with you, I know you probably don't think that he is there, but believe me honey, God is watching over you because you are his child. Sometimes,bad things happen to us and we are wandering where God is! believe me he is there. Have you considered giving your life to God? He has an eraser to erase all these awful feelings from your life. Just surrender to God honey. I have kids of my own and they are all boys including a 12 year old and I can not imagine anybody hurting my kids.Anyway, I am not a victim of sex abuse, but one of my sibling was abused by my step-dad and she is now in therapy and very suicidal and with kids of her own very difficult to maintain relationship with her husband and believe me she is a time-bomb. I have read many stories tonight and your story really touched me because you did not act like a victim and went ahead and stop your dad from continue keep up the faith and if you want to take my advise and move on with your life and trust in the Lord with all your heart.

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