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Aug 18, 2010
 BB:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The incident between you and that other boy could well have been considered natural childhood exploration, depending on both your ages at the time, each of your development stages at the time, and the circumstances of the situation. Exploration and curiosity is consistent with your depiction of the event; you said yourself that you thought nothing of it. Please consider some form of counseling, as the turmoil you describe in your life goes much deeper than what you stated happened with that other boy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

And just as a side note, I edited out much of the gratuitous profanity you included, and your derogatory remark about a certain type of woman. I ask that you please refrain from using such language on this site. Thank you for your understanding.

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Aug 20, 2010
 Deal with your problem in a mature and adult way
by: maurice

Follow Darlene's loving encourageing words to you
You'll be doing yourself a loving, valueing, respectful service of dealing with all you wrote in a mature and responsible way: Having had a similiar experience when I was growing up when older boys did almost exactly to me: I had to put it all in perspective and get on with my life: Darlene certainly has begun to ask you to put what happened to you in perspective: I know you will: Begin by searching out a counsellor/therapist if your in the music world you can well afford it: Stop throwing yourself at those beautiful unsuspecting young women: Slow me down Lord until I make sense of who I am: When I am ready to have a healthy relationship with a girl: Girls/young women are no idiots and can tell how sincere a bloke is in a matter of days, week, month's keep that in mind BB: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body get out and about with your friends and take part in sporting and cultural activities away from the enclosed environment of the band room and dance hall: Follow Darlene's professional and caring advice if you really want to live your life to the full:
Aug 29, 2010
 help 4 u
by: Anonymous

go to Male Survivor ...they may be of great help to you. What u are experiencing is GUILT. Not uncommon but difficult to deal w/ on your own. God bless
Sep 01, 2010
 i feel as though im you
by: Anonymous

i read and read your story over and over again, im 24 and have two children, i feel like i function almost as two people. i dont recall any single incident that started the wierd process of my life but i do relate so much to parts of your long journey what i do know is like you i was always trying to please and as a younge child noticed that if i did these things i got a wierd feeling of being wanted.im on alot of very strong medication and am still strugling to put mylife together on paper and work out what happened and when there is so much to cram into 16years, alot changed after i had my first child at 17 with a man 11 years older we are now married with another chid. my past just wont let up, i dont know where to find the help for me to remember and possibly diarise from as far back as i can get wich at the moment is patchy and very disturbing. i dont have advice as like yourself i am very good at giving advice so would only tell you what youd say if your story were being told to you. what i do want you to know is that while no one can magicly fix any of us but you are not alone and the differing effects you are and have to deal with are not your fault and the best thing you can do is devote that energy and other emotons to making sure we do what we can to save others from beleiving they are so worthless. theres so much id love to talk with you about. you are truly amazing and a real inspiration to those people out there who are losing the battle with sanity due to some form of abuse. keep your chin up as there are some seriously good thing coming your way you need to believe in yourself you are just such a fantastic person and dont ever let anyone tell you otherwise xo

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