Comments for Child Abuse Story From Ashley

Click here to add your own comments

Feb 01, 2011
Ashley:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your father didn't have sex "with" you; he sexually abused you. Don't ever make the mistake of believing it was your fault. Fault lies squarely on his shoulders. Please tell someone what he did to you. And if you are still a minor and still living in this environment, please report what's happening so that it will stop. Contact Kids Helpline in Canada at 1-800-668-6868. They are staffed with professionally trained counsellors who will help you with your options. You can remain anonymous. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/home.asp Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Feb 02, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Ashley: It is great you found Darlene's site: If you follow her advice you'll be fine: You live your life to the full: She has told you That your Father sexually abused you: You instictingly knew he was wrong or it was not right that he should enter the bathroom and close the door while you in there: Even at your tender age, you knew that. He was wrong, You are not to blame, say it was not my fault, he did me an injustice: There is help Ashley, Darlene who is a Canadian know all the help that is there for you: Don't be afraid: Have courage: Be strong: I am almost certain you have a special friend or two (Girls) your own age who know your secret and what he did to you: with them talk to a caring, trusting teacher that you like, better still if there is a counsellor in the school have your personal chat with them: They will help you and advise you: Then Ashley begin having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes, this will work wonders for you: It will mean getting out there with your fellow class mates and friends taking part in team sports: Sporting and cultural activities with them: You will make real and natural friends for life with loads of people who will make you happy when you say hello: There is safety in numbers: Ashely please oh please have a real friend or two your own age and gender: I believe this to be most important: So be gentle and kind to yourself: Say I love ME that beautiful and wonderful Me looking out at Me from the mirror: Be safe, stay safe, Hi you stay in education too: Always believe in yourself: MY MOTTO: I will: I can: I must: because I (me) is WORTH it

Feb 04, 2011
It's not your secret...
by: AnonymousT

It's not your secret to keep. He did the wrong thing - it's his secret - & he wants you to keep it because he knows it's wrong.

Your father has abused you. Please talk to someone and know no matter what he says this was not your fault. Ever.

T

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Write Your Child Abuse Story.

Return to Child Abuse Story From Ashley

Disclaimer: To the best of my knowledge the child abuse
stories on this site are true. While I cannot guarantee
this, I do try to balance the need for the submitter to be
heard and validated with the needs of my visitors.



E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...

Most Recent

  1. The reasons I've been absent

    Nov 14, 17 01:30 PM

    It's been another challenging time for me. As I actively work toward an online program for survivors of sexual abuse, I've also had to deal with issues at home. Hubby has been diagnosed with 2 types o…

    Read More

  2. I Self Medicate

    Jun 26, 17 04:40 PM

    When I was 3 we left Illinois for Arizona. The day we left my grandfather had a heart attack and died. I have one uncomfortable grainy memory of him. I

    Read More

  3. Ongoing Abuse

    Jun 06, 17 03:03 PM

    I'm 15/16. I am still getting abused physically, mentally and verbally by my family especially my mother. I don't understand what to do to overcome this.

    Read More

E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...