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Jun 06, 2013
To Anonymous:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

There's no question that you're dealing with a dilemma. And while I can't advise you what to do, I will offer this: You yourself don't know with any degree of certainty that you were abused by L--, so to try and convince your mother that you might have been is to try to convince her of something you're not sure about. It's more important that YOU yourself deal with what's bothering you than it is to convince anyone else of anything. You can't control what others think or do. You can only be responsible for your own actions. If you approach your mother with the idea of seeking out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with what you believe may have happened to you, and then go from there. If she won't go for that, then seek out other resources that may be available to you. For example, if you're planning to go to college in the near future, you may be able to talk to a counsellor there. If you live your life worried about convincing your mother, then you're wasting away time that you can never get back. Live your life to the fullest, no matter what. Again, the most important thing is what YOU do for yourself. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


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