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Dec 23, 2007
Glad you're now safe...
by: Darlene Barriere - webmaster

I'm glad to learn that you are starting to get over this part of your life. But what I have to say is more about your mother and father than it is about the waiter.

Your mother used very poor judgment when she gave him, this waiter, this STRANGER your family's phone number and email address. And then, when the relationship continued, when it was obvious that this waiter had perverse intentions, your mother should have severed all connections with this pervert LONG before she did. AND she should have reported him to the authorities. She failed to do her duty as a parent; she failed to protect you and to ensure you were not put in harms way. Your father owed you that same duty. It's your birthright.

You mentioned still having horrible nightmares and that you are too afraid to go out with boys. I urge you to talk to your parents about finding some form of counselling so that you can get help to deal with the emotional residue of these memories. You're worth it, dear, you really are.


Jan 21, 2008
Shocking! 0_o
by: Francine

That is so mean when your mother would let that pervert make your life miserable! If I were your mother, I would protect you from that sick skirt-chaser and then call the police on him. Well, I was recently being chased by some skirt-chasing kid whose nickname for me is "sexy girl" and I am completely digusted by this, too (a skirt-chaser is a person who constantly chases girls)! Sometimes he would try to have sex with me although I made a lot of good excuses to get away from him! One time, he told me that I should wear a lot of low-cut shirts (without any undershirts, of course) and a lot of skirts (without any underwear at all), neither of which I will ever do! Well, shame on your parents for dropping a ball! I really feel for you and your pain and I really so care about how you feel, sweetie. Take care!

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