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Aug 31, 2009
You ARE good enough...and you always will BE good enough no matter what your parents say...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Anonymous, consider contacting one of the national child abuse hotlines. If you are in the USA, Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) can provide you with someone talk to about the abuse you are still dealing with. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

The fact that you know your parents are feeding you lies is very important, Anonymous. It's more than half the battle. You don't ever have to convince your parents that you are worthy; you only have to convince YOURSELF. Everybody who visits this site knows that you are smart and very much good enough, and that you are worthy of dignity and respect. Keep telling yourself these messages because these messages are the TRUTH. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir


Aug 31, 2009
It is not right under any circumstances
by: maurice

Anonymous 35. I am aware behind that anonyminity there is the most wonderful of human beings. Oh yes, sadly you were born into a house rather than a loving family surrounding, it ain't a home for you even though you have to live there for another three yeasr. Surmising is all I can in between what you have ever so bravely and couragely written the truth about what is going on for you in that house. No one especially you and I gather you other sibling are enduring a fair bit too. All that Matters annonymous is YOU. It is great you have one true friend who hears you. understands you cares about you, respects you for who you are in all you've trusted her with about yourself. Between both of you I am sure darlene's words to you will be of help. She has given you stepping stones to your freedom to be YOU. You are the most important person in all of what has gone on. You begin loving the wonderful and beautiful you. There's greatness and goodness inherent to all human being Naturally. You have to acknowledge it about yourself. You relate a awful scenario of horrificness that has been perpetrated on you by uncaring parents expecially your father. Your abuse is crippling you. Don't Quit, get help, if possible get away from that place of pain for you. You do not deserve such ongoing treatment. There's LOVE on this site for you. beginning with Darlene who watches over each of her visitors like a mother, having been through the pain of abuse herself. She is worth heeding Annonymous 35. she is professionally in tune with your story. Get the help she advises, you will certainly be the better for it.

Aug 31, 2009
The sooner, the better...Maurice and Darlene are right!
by: Anonymous

Anonoymous35, your parents are wrong. You are not stupid; you are not ugly; you are not fat; you are none of those lies they fed to you...you are beautiful, smart, articulate and worthy of love, dignity and respect. I can relate; my parents did the same thing to me and my brother whenever we "did something wrong (just as they called it)". Your parents are very twisted in their own ways of thinking and they need help...but so do you and your siblings. Like I said in my title, Maurice and Darlene are right! please tell someone!

Sep 09, 2009
Why did I repeat the pattern???
by: Anonymous

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