Comments for Child Abuse Story From Anonymous33

Click here to add your own comments

May 22, 2009
I'm concerned about your safety...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Anonymous, you're parents are twisted in their thinking. There is something seriously wrong with them. You are NOT a whore. You are NOT to blame for any of what's happened to you.

You say you're now living with a "surrogate brother". For goodness sake, I hope you've reported what has happened to you and that you are in the care of someone trustworthy, someone who won't abuse you further. You didn't deserve any of the mistreatment and horrid abuse you endured, but you DO deserve to be in a loving and nurturing home, a safe place. If you haven't yet disclosed to the proper authorities, I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about your situation. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And you NEED to disclose the abuse. And you need professional/medical help with your eating disorders. Please talk to someone who can provide you with that kind of help.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir


May 22, 2009
Please Get Help
by: Judy

Hello Anonymous33 - Please listen to Darlene and get help. You must call and discuss your options with someone - you can't do this alone and you must go to someone or talk to someone you can trust. I hope you are no longer being abused and I pray that you will seek help and get treatment right away. What happened to you was/is beyond horrible! I don't care what your mother or dad's problem is - there is no way you should have had to suffer at the hands of the very people who are supposed to nurture, love, and take care of you. Also, that person who raped you is also a monster and should not get away with what they did to you. Do not give up on yourself :) Best of luck to you! Judy

May 22, 2009
I am truly sorry.
by: K.C.

Hi Anonymous33,

I am so glad you are out of that house. I am so so sorry about what your mother did to you. Never believe her. You are NOT fat or a whore. If you tested a 170 IQ at the age of 7 you are certainly not stupid. Please do everything you can to help yourself and get your parents reported, it is very wrong of what both of them did to you.

Be safe and be happy.

K.C.

May 22, 2009
The sooner, the better...Judy is right!
by: Anonymous

Anonymous33, your parents are wrong. You are not stupid; you are not a whore, you are not sick; you are not ugly; you are not fat; you are not disgusting; you are not a freak; you are not twisted. You are sweet, smart, articulate, beautiful, and worthy of love, dignity and respect, all of which you were cruelly denied of as a little girl. What your so-called parents did to you is sadistic. I'm sorry about the brutality that your parents had willfully put you through; I can relate...at least a little bit; my parents call me names and hit me, too, and that sucks. They even kicked me out of the house more than once whenever they "couldn't handle me". I hope your parents get incarcerated for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you. I also hope you're in a safe place now, and if not, please tell someone and try talking to your surrogate brother as well. Remember, sweetheart, I love you and will always love you because, like I said, you are beautiful and precious. Judy (and everyone else) is right. Please tell someone (even your surrogate brother) before it's too late! Don't wait too long!

May 24, 2009
The sooner, the better...Judy is right! part 2
by: Anonymous

BTW, I, like you, tried to please my parents; I tried to do things for them...and all they ever did is turn their backs on me and just say, "Well, that's nice." Nothing more, nothing less. Well, mom and dad, THAT IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU TO JUST SAY THAT TO ME; I AM ONLY TRYING FOR YOU TO BE PROUD OF ME AND THE LEAST THAT YOU CAN DO IS TO BE PROUD OF ME. Sorry, but that is for my parents. But anyway, back to you. All I ever want, like you, is to have a family and instead I only receive punishments for something I will never understand. I, like you, want to be loved and cherished (like you should've been) and instead, I, like you, am abused.

Jun 03, 2009
stay strong, sweetie. (:
by:

***Duplicate post removed***

Jun 03, 2009
stay strong, sweetie. (:
by:

***Duplicate post removed***

Jun 03, 2009
stay strong, sweetie. (:
by:

i'm 1 14 year old girl, and I was too, sexually abused. I think that you must be the strongest person i've ever "met". You have gone through so much, and the fact that you're still here is amzing. Absolutely amazing. I can't help but feel a rush of emotion for all of the things you were put through, and I can only hope that you continue to stay strong.
(:

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Write Your Child Abuse Story.

Return to Child Abuse Story From Anonymous33

Disclaimer: To the best of my knowledge the child abuse
stories on this site are true. While I cannot guarantee
this, I do try to balance the need for the submitter to be
heard and validated with the needs of my visitors.



E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...

Most Recent

  1. The reasons I've been absent

    Nov 14, 17 01:30 PM

    It's been another challenging time for me. As I actively work toward an online program for survivors of sexual abuse, I've also had to deal with issues at home. Hubby has been diagnosed with 2 types o…

    Read More

  2. I Self Medicate

    Jun 26, 17 04:40 PM

    When I was 3 we left Illinois for Arizona. The day we left my grandfather had a heart attack and died. I have one uncomfortable grainy memory of him. I

    Read More

  3. Ongoing Abuse

    Jun 06, 17 03:03 PM

    I'm 15/16. I am still getting abused physically, mentally and verbally by my family especially my mother. I don't understand what to do to overcome this.

    Read More

E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...