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Nov 06, 2009
I hope YOU have a support system...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your friend's story with my visitors and me. I'm delighted to learn that she is now in a presumably safe place, away from her abusive foster dad; and that he has been arrested for child abuse. However, if I understand you correctly, I am more than a just little concerned that the nurse would examine this girl in front of others. Perhaps I misunderstood how you learned of this terrible situation, since protocol would generally require this nurse to be more discrete under such circumstances. If you witnessed this examination personally, then you may be affected by the trauma of seeing the results of what this abused girl endured. I do hope you have a support system in place in order to help you deal with all this. Don't just shut it away. Talk to someone you trust about how it affected you.

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Nov 07, 2009
A Friend in need is a Friend indeed. Your the best
by: maurice

I've been away for a week, your sharing about the abuse of your friend is my first one to comment on. I have just come back from being at my best friend's Grand Chld's christianing. They have 3 Grandchildren with another due within the month. They reared three wonderful and beautiful children themselves at whose christianing I attended too. So reading your sharing with Darlene and her visitors of your friends horrific abuse at the hands of her foster father makes me puke with anger and dismay. Please take Darlene's comment serious and do share your feelings on what you witnessed with that Nurse. It does seem somewhat un-professional in the way this nurse gave the cervical cancer jab. But maybe your friend asked you to be with her for courage in taking the jab as she trusted you with her life. Maybe it was the way she wanted to tell you that she was being abused. In total confidence you learned about her abuse. She knows and trusts you as her true friend you will be there for her as she now heals from the wounds of abuse. Be strong for her, but also share your own feelings around it all as I am certain you were shocked when you saw her arms and then her front from that boiling water. It has it effects so we need to share how it effects us. Darlene knows best. Your friend is so lucky to have you holding her hand and loving her by caring for her now. Your the best, well done for having the courage to write your friends awful abuse. The poor innocent girl's suffering such horrific abuse at the hands of this Animal of a human being. Great he is locked up, In our papers this week I read about another horrific story about a swimming coach who abused many boys over a twenty eight year period before being caught. I am not sure just locking them away is enough to make them realize the lasting effects they perpetrated on the innocent beautiful children. I am afraid I would be more firm with them. Hi you are the greatest, well done for sharing your friends story, she is blessed to have you as her friend. Hug love into each other as true friends. build up each others self esteem, self worth by always believing in yourself. Please take the best of care of yourself while you walk with your friend. Live well, laugh alot and love much. I can, I will, I must just for me and my friend. Look in that mirror of yours and say all the positive things about the wonderful and beautiful me in the mirror. Think positive, act positive, be positive each day you wake up and jump out of bed. Your the best.

Nov 08, 2009
child abuse hater feels for this girl
by: child abuse hater

its sickening to know there are these type of people who enjoy hurting and abusing others,i hope this girl can now live her life the normal way and not have the fear of being abused in a sexual and physical way, glad to hear her step dad has been arrested and hope he gets wats coming to him.

child abuse hater believes all abused children can overcome there trauma of abuse and make the rest ov there lives the way they want them to be.

on a side note id like to say maurice you are a great commenter keep up the good work =]

Nov 18, 2009
I pray this girl will be happy in the end
by: Dover, DELAWARE, U.S.A

I also faced child abuse and I still am today. I currently live in Dover, Delaware, but am planning to implement my number 1 important goal that will change my life for the best of me: I am going to escape to Columbia, Missouri to find myself a new way of living. I faced racial prejeduce at school (I'm Asian; I'm a 19-year-old Filipino girl) and faced child abuse at home. A home is a true place where you are loved and cared for and nurtured, so that you are raised to become a normal, healthy and happy human being.

I hope that this girl whose foster parent is now jailed has now/gets comforting help from refreshing, loving, moral individuals like me! I pray for all the children the world over, such as this poor, abused, broken girl, and my heart especially goes out for the children who are mistreated and maltreated and exploited. One of my future life goals once I settle in Columbia, Missouri is that I will help such children, victims of abusive mistreatment, when I am one of them.

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