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Jul 02, 2010
Anneka:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You need to take your own advice because you are definitely worthy of the help. Please consider contacting ChildLine on 0800 1111. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.donthideit.com

Thank you for sharing your story and your very important message with my visitors and me.

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Jul 02, 2010
ur are beutiful
by: Anonymous

i know that your are truly beutiful just by hearing what you have to say. plz plz plz get away from your family. dont do it for me, do it fro the sake of your life. hon, god will always be with you. you may not see it when these bad thing are happening, but when you decide to leave (or if u already have) i promise that u will find someone (wehter its a close friend or a boy friend) that loves u and cares about u.

i love you! you are my god sister and i am praying for you!!!

Jul 02, 2010
You are worth getting help
by: Alice

I know it must be hard for you to take advice from someone on the internet you've never met, but you need to tell someone! Your mother was so terrible to you when she hurt you and continued to let that monster of your brother stay in your home. You need to talk to someone about your feelings, my friend was abused to and she to also tried to injure herself, but she told me and we found someone she could talk to, and as a result she's become much happier. I've never met you, but I know enough about you to tell you your worth getting help. I've read almost every story on this site, but yours is the first I've commented on, because I could tell you needed someone to tell you just how worthy you are.
I love you and so do many others.
Alice

Jul 03, 2010
How could they?!
by: Anonymous

What your brother and mother did to you was very pathetic and ungrateful because they are warped in their own ways of thinking. Even your mother had the audacity to be sadistic towards to when you told her what your rapist of a brother did to you; every child victim should always come first. You might want to try counselling. I love you and you are in my thoughts.

Jul 03, 2010
Have you gotten help for yourself?
by: Mike

From your story, I'm not sure if you skipped the part about getting help or not. It sounds like maybe you got help and are now telling your story so others get help, but if you haven't gotten help yourself yet, you need to listen to yourself and do so.

Jul 09, 2010
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by: Tiffany Dawn

I read your story and that just broke my heart. I am so sorry that you had to go through that and I hope you stay away from your family who it doesn't sound like cared to much. Just know that there are people out there that care about you.

Jul 14, 2010
Dear Anneka
by: Anonymous

I'm truly sorry that this happened to you. There are no words to express how your story made me feel. I hope you get helped. You deserve to live a full life. Thank you for sharing your story with us. God bless you and give you strength to keep going on.

Aug 03, 2010
thank you
by: M.B.

Thank you... i appreciate you sharing your story... i live with a man with two sons... their mother was murdered early in our relationship, the boys i have always loved.. C and i lost a child and then we had our two babies, a boy and a girl.. i always loved my step children and would let them babysit for money or if i just had to run to the store... my little boy (the oldest by 13 months) at about the age of four started crying when i would leave... i became suspicious... then my little girl one day only three years old looked very depressed, i asked what was wrong.. and she just said it... that her brother had put something in her crack.. that is all it took... she told me more but i immediately told C who now i had been with for ten years.. that i was leaving and what was going on... i never questioned my daughter she was too young to know the things she said so I knew it was true... C made the boy move in with his uncle where he could get help and some one on one time.. my stepsons had been thru alot losing their mom, but i was all my two kids had... and after reading your story i know that i did the right thing.. thank you for sharing your story.. getting my kids out of that situation immediately without trying to "help" my step son any further... many in the family thought i was horrid for turning my back on my stepson, he was teenager though and my baby was just that a baby, and I had to make her my number one priority.. to this day I still can not even go visit my stepson... but when I feel guilty for not "helping" more, i will think of your story and know that i got my daughter out of that shia! thank you again...

Oct 17, 2011
It will stay with you for ever
by: anna

if you don't get help!
It may fade away with time, but then it will hit you when least expected.
you have been rejected and betrayed by the woman who gave birth to you, so called mother!
Strongly advice you to get help, talk to your teachers, not relatives because they have the tendency to hide "the shameful thing"
How can you live day by day with those people, but you haven't got choice, a little advice, study, study, study, or if you can't afford get a profession like " nurse" have your own secure income and forget about those people who are your family, and help also the community people who are in the same situation.
God the creator of the universe bless you

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