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Nov 12, 2010
Angelina:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You have NOTHING to feel guilt for. Your father's mistreatment of you has consequences; for you, that means you don't want to see or spend time with him. And that is completely understandable. Why would anyone want to spend time with a person who continually mistreats them! I can also understand what your sister is saying, but she's not you, and she's not in your shoes at this point in time. She's not in a position to judge or give advice. I strongly recommend some form of counseling, someone who can help you deal with the repercussions of your father's abuse. Once you deal with that pain, you might be surprised about the options that open up for you. And one more thing, you are NOT the lies your father has said to you. You are beautiful and smart, you are worthy of dignity and respect, and you most definitely are lovable. If he can't see that for himself, he has HUGE problems. I just hope you start seeing it for YOURSELF. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 16, 2010
Same
by: Anonymous

Mine is the same way. He tells his friends and coworkers that he doesn't have children and then tells me I'm a piece of shit for not visiting him enough. Initially I thought he was upset because he was right in the sense that I didn't visit him frequently. I put myself in his shoes and figured I too would be devastated if my child didn't communicate with me. I bit the bait and went to his house, attempting to rekindle what never existed. He locked himself in his room and asked why a stranger was in his house and who was I. He then told me to leave because he didn't have a daughter.
Crazy...

Nov 18, 2010
ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF:
by: maurice

Hiya Angelina B: This is the first day of the rest of your life: With the comment Darlene gave you to work on: Oh yes she wants you to Always believe in yourself: You are one very special visitor to her site as indeed she treats each of her visitors (Special) She has given you deep meaningful words from her heart for you to take into your head first but make them heart and act on them: She sure wants what is the best for you: Now you will want to have the best for yourself too: Begin today: have real and true friends your own age and gender( I believe this to be important) because having a true friend is totally different to boy/girl relationships: one will and can have many relationships but one can only have one or two good friends: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes, Angelina B this in one sure way to make natural and life long friends for life: Take part in team sports with your friends, class mates, fellow students, playing games: You'll know the differnece in your life and your whole attitude to yourself: You are intelligent: you are beautiful: you are gifted: you have your own special tallents: I believe each child ever birthed has leadership qualities: Angelina B: live well: laugh alot, love much beginning with the me person in the mirror: No negative stuff all positive: I am etc: I have etc: other then I don't like this and that etc: Negative attitude come natural: we have to work at thinking positive: So start today Angelina B

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