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Oct 30, 2010
Angela:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It can seem as though getting past what happened to you is insurmountable, but you are going about it the right way. Only through the pain can you hope to come out the other side of it. I commend and applaud that you have chosen to meet it head on rather than circumvent it. And always remember, nothing that happened to you was your fault. Your uncle "groomed" you, and then took advantage of your vulnerabilities, especially as they related to needing a father figure in your life. Next time you see a 9-year-old, take a good look at how young that little person is, and then recognize that that was how little you were. You were powerless, Angela. HE had all the power, and he misused it. Remember all that. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 31, 2010
Response to Angela
by: Tony

I understand how you feel from experiences with my best friend, and later my fiance, Deborah. She was molested as a young girl and dealt with her pain by talking about it and later volunteering with abused children. She came to understand that it was not her fault and that everything he did had nothing to do with who she was and all that he said was based on his need to have power over her. She took the power away from him by realizing she was stronger; he was the weak one.

Nov 01, 2010
I am not to blame: He preyed on my innocence and vunerability
by: maurice

Angela M: your cry for help has been heard: Darlene has placed you right in her heart in her comment: She truly has given you empowering words of love and help: I know you'll do the right thing for your own good and healing from that Beasts abuse of youL Tony, too has given you words to ponder on: Honest to goodness one's: Angela M: you'll turn your pain into empowering others and safeguarding other beautidul innocent 9 year old girls: I have no nieces or nephews so my friends three beautiful girls were my making sense of what a pedophille and an abuser of children is all about: Their parents and I were having a heart to heart sharing about How a Beast of a man could use and abuse such innocence: That brought it all truthfully home to me: So Darlene suggesting when you see the next 9 year old girl make a sesnse of your innocence taken away by that beast: Pedophille abuser: Hi Angela M, you'll be a winner: You be like Darlene herself who moved from being a victim into Victory over her own abuse and proven to us all (Her Visitors) there is life after being abused: Please Angela M act on her loving words to you: Let your motto be I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Angela M simply you are WORTH it: Look in the mirror: Say positive stuff about yourself and your body: Like I am beautiful: I like every part of my beautiful body especially the parts that beast molested: Be genlte and kind to your body soothe and massage all the nice creams and oils into it: Then give yourself one huge HUG and CUDDLE; saying I LOVE ME; Hi Angela M don't you dare say that is a silly thing to be asked to do: It Ain't because I do it from time to time: It is make you feel good feeling: Now I am also going to ask you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh no, he's not going to encourage me to take part with my own age and gender in team sports and cultural activities: That I am Angela M: because I want what is the best for you: Do I want waht is best for myself??? I do. I do. being part of a team you'll make real and genuine friends for life and see yourself as you truly are: Wonderful and Beautiful: Angela M allow a counsellor/therapist put all what happened you in abuse in perspective: You'll be fine if you do: Believe Darlene and yes Tony and Me too.

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