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Dec 14, 2010
Angel:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Nothing that happened to you was your fault. None of it. You see, your father was twisted in his way of thinking. There was something seriously wrong with him to do what he did to you. No child deserves to be mistreated, and that includes you. And you don't EVER have to worry about getting rude comments, because I don't allow them. They won't ever see the light of day; in other words, they won't go live on this site. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Dec 14, 2010
nobody noticed?
by: My Two Cents

Angel, you are an incredibly brave person who has been violated by one of the people you should have been able to trust to keep you safe. Nothing that happened was your fault.

I really am wondering how you could be experiencing abuse this severe (burned with irons?!) And beaten daily with a belt, and nobody noticed? You put down your location when you posted the story - in that climate, it's not like you were wearing a winter parka and ski pants. Wouldn't teachers, babysitters, neighbors, relatives, plus doctors and nurses if you got treatment for the injuries, wouldn't they notice?

Honestly, it is EVERYONE'S responsibility to report suspicions of abuse and I really doubt people did not know something was wrong. I am glad your neighbor helped you, and I wish someone had done so back when you were like five or eight instead of waiting for your teen years to help you.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Dec 18, 2010
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Angel: I can epatise with you receiving the beatings with that heavy belt on your tender body: but I sure can't understand a beast of a man putting an Iron on you lovely body: I have come to see a real caring person in My Two Cents in her comments: She sure asks real, questions in her comment to you you: There is a careing, loving nature in the words she has written: I too can't come to grips why the people who must have seen your bruises, your burns and treated you for them did nothing: Angel: Darlene has written a real comment from her heart to yours: She sure wants you to have the best life can offer you now after all the pain you've been through: That beast did physical damage on your beautiful body: In time you will erase them for ever by being gentle and kind to your body: massageing/rubbing cream and oils all over and relaxing lovingly of yourself in radox bath's from time to time: Precious times for you to think positive: act positive: be positive about yourself: Also with the help of that neighbour (FRIEND) or friends get real help: Counselling Angel is the best place to begin really loving yourself: Living your life to the full: One sure way too Angel is have a healthy mind in a healthy body: How do I have that?? well Angel you have to get off your bottom: get out and about being Alive and Active with your friends, fellow students, likeminded people your own age and gender taking part in Team sports: or sporting and cultural activities: You'll open up a new world and horizonsfor yourself: You'll make real and natural friends for life and you'll have many aquaintances who'll make you feel good when you meet them: I KNOW THIS WORKS: as I have encouraged and promoted this way for many over my forthy years journeying and working with young people and their families: You have gifts: You have tallents: You have leadership Qualities: get to know what they are and share them with others: Angel, Darlene, My two Cents and me want what is the best for you NOW, pretty please act on Darlene encoureageing loving woman's heart feeling words to you: Stay safe: Be safe Angel:

Jan 05, 2011
I can't even understand
by: Anonymous

Oh my goodness i dont kno wwhy anyone would leave rude comments to things like these that would just be terrible
You have to understand non of this is your fault, and im sure you have heard it all before but its not. Your father was definitely mentally unstable and its so terrible your mother didn't take you out of there, but is anything this is her fault for leaving you in that state.

From Darlene - Webmaster: I'm with you Anonymous, but sadly some visitors do leave rude and nasty comments to others. But no comment goes live on this site until I've read and approved it first, so it's not something that any visitor who submits a story here has to worry about.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 06, 2011
what re--assurance, love, respect, affirmation, honesty from the heart
by: maurice

Well Angel: Annonymous: and her many many visitorsto this special safe haven site we get from Darlene the truest re--assurance from her heart to us all he rrespect, her total value for each visitor who relates Her/His abuse awful mostly horrenndous telling of one's abuse which in the majority of her visitors is being free'er for the first time in the telling: Darlene site for many is a new beginning: so reading her comment to annonymous gives us hope al her vistors but equally to others out there: to get it off thier chests in a confidential and safe way to begin the process of counselling and becoming a victim of abuse into VICTORY OVER IT: 2011 Hi thanks Darlene and all her visitors for helpimp me to think positive: Act Positive and be positive knowing there is a great life to be lived after being ABUSED in whatever form or degree:

Jan 07, 2011
:)
by: Shona From the UK

U took alot of courage to come out with that angel but i'm glad that your're okay now. i'm very sorry to hear about what happened when u were a child. I don't know what to say really but your a brave girl and stay strong. xx

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