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Mar 23, 2011
Andrew:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You don't really want to die; what you want is to be out of pain. And you deserve to BE out of pain. And while I thank you for sharing with my visitors and me, please reach out to a counselor in your college for some resources available to you in the community. There are places that can help you, but you must seek them out. You don't have to be alone in this dark place. There are crisis centers and suicide hotlines out there just waiting for your call, waiting to give you the lift you need. You didn't deserve to be abused. You don't deserve to be going through all the repercussions of that abuse. You DO deserve help for the fact that you are suffering.

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Darlene Barriere
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Mar 24, 2011
Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

That seems simplistic to say But Andrew G I have agood sense that you are a highly intelligent young man: With empowering potential to do good both for yourself NOW and in people's lifes: Ah yes your story is a tragic case of sexual abuse and the lasting effects it seems to be having on your mind: There is greatness and goodness in that heart of yours so move all your mind thoughts about self harming etc and put your true heart feelings on them: You'll be the winner over your abusers: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: You found Darlene's safe have site where you let out you feelings: She has given you real heart feelings words to move forward in your life NOW: from today: don't delay, surround yourself with positive thinking chosen few friends who will widen your negative view of yourself: Don't have friends who will keep you in the morass of your thinking about yourself: You need people to lift you out of that morass: Counselling for a start will give you the uplift that Darlene knows you need right now: Change your daily/weekly routine too begin to have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: I believe this will prove invalueable to you: That body of yours is beautiful, value it respect it: treat with loving gentleness and kindness: Now get out there being active and alive taking part with your fellow students and friends in sporting and cultural activities: outward positive thinking will be a great help to you as you seem to be turned in on yourself right now: Your abusers harmed your body enough without you doing it: Get help: Talk and tell a counsellor: have a friend your own age and gender to affirm you: not neccessary to agree with you in your feelings: will kick ass not litterally but you know what I mean to lift you out of your pain of the effects of those bad, sicko's who used and abiused you in your vunerable and innocent childhood: So Andrew G no more self pity, be strong, have the courage with the help of your college counsellor or indeed as Darlene says to you from her woman's heart the community aids and supports around you:

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