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Feb 04, 2010
Amy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your father doesn't know what he's talking about. He's messed up in the head. He has absolutely no credibility. And he has NOT ruined your life forever; you have the ability to rise above all that you endured, as difficult as that is to realize right now. You are on track to make something of your life. Cosmetology school is most definitely not for "idiots"; only people insecure within themselves would ever say such a belittling thing. Your father feels the need to put you down in order to feel better about himself. When you see this in perspective, Amy, you realize how pathetic a man your father really is. Please seek out some form of counselling in order to deal with all the turmoil and repercussions of growing up with such abuse. You're certainly worth that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me, and keep moving forward.

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Feb 04, 2010
im sorry
by: dana

what angers me most about this story is the fact that your dad doesnt want you to have a life. he should mind his business and let you live your life. it's your life, anyway-not his! the second thing that makes me mad is that he expected you to clean around the house when neither he nor your mom taught you how! i hope you have a great life!

Feb 04, 2010
How could they?!
by: Anonymous

Amy, I'm so sorry that you didn't have a good family. Your so-called parents are truly cruel and sick in their own ways of thinking...not to mention control freaks with ignorant minds. They didn't deserve to have a lovely, wonderful and beautiful daughter like you, but, most of all, you didn't deserve to have such uncaring, unloving, ignorant and sadistic parents. Have you tried counnselling? Be brave, Amy, and stay strong.

Feb 06, 2010
The control by Parents over their children Thankfully is a small percent
by: maurice

Amy 2, you were one of those unlucky children to have a Father who had no respect for himself not alone your mother or you and your retarded brother. He was a sicko, a bad man, He should never have fathered children. Even animals would care for their young better that he did you. Great you are apart now with your boy friend. Please be safe, you be in charge NOW of your life, let no other ever, ever abuse you again. Darlene has given you a stepping stone of positivity to get on with living your life to the full. Always believe in yourself. With the help of a true friend get the help and advice she know you need NOW to move on in your life. Your father took away all your dignity and self respect. He treated you harshly, cruelly, by emotionally and physically abusing you. Begin having a healthy mind in a healthy body. mix and intergrate with people your own age in sporting and cultural groups/teams activities. There is safety in numbers. You are still young and beautiful. Get your diet back to normality, Look in that mirror and see the beauty of the ME person looking back at you. While it is the most natural thing to have a boy friend it is also advisable that you have a real friend or two who'll watch out for you through thick or through thin. will stand by you, will love you, will hug you, will cry with you, will laugh with you no matter what. Think about making a friend like that. LOve and respect your own intuition, Value it, then you'll know Darlene's comment will help you begin that process. Be safe, Stay safe, I can,I will, I must because I am WORTH it. Look in the mirror once again and say. I'M SPECIAL, I'M THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON NOW. I GOING TO LOVE ME TO BITS. CUDDLE AND HUG THAT POSITIVE THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF INTO YOURSELF. Off your bottom now and get going don't go deeper into your morass. come out of it, there is life to be lived after abuse. Darlene has proved that for all our sakes.

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