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Oct 29, 2010
Amanda:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand your reluctance to see someone, but please consider seeing a counselor about the sexual abuse. While CBT has it's merits, it doesn't give you what you need: to be able to fully deal with what happened to you at the hands of this child molester. And consider this, it is highly likely that he has molested other little girls, and probably STILL is molesting them. You see, molesters don't change their ways until they are made to. I hope you'll reconsider your position on getting the right kind of help for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 31, 2010
Be Brave: Be strong. Tell on HIM:: Don't let him hurt another child
by: maurice

Amanda: Please feel strengthened in your resolve to tell on that bold, molesting cousin of yours: You owe him no favours for his abuse and molestation of you: The truth will set you free: Darlene is the professional adviser: Hi, Amanda know she is more than that, she is a winner over being abused herself: From being a victim she is now empowering others who arrive here on her site: Indeed not only here on her site but in many lecture halls all over Canada and the USA: She has turned her pain of abuse into power: Amanda you will be freeer in yourself once you act on the loving words from her heart to you: You know he was wrong: He was only using you for his own gratification by sexually abusing you: What he did to you is still effecting you: Your family seem concerned, know about it, I know Amanda you would not want him to be molesting other little girls like he did you; Darlene has told you honestly he won't stop until and unless you tell on him: There are many beautiful children out there of your age that he will ruin their lives and pain them as he has pained you in what he did to you: He is a sicko, a pedophille, a molester, A bad man: Sadly he used your innocence and vunerability once he said this will be our secret and only you and I can only play this game: You are highly intelligent: A bigger girl now; A young thinking woman: You know that he did that adults have to resepct each other before anything like what he did to you takes place: You, Amanada know he was wrong: You'll do what you know to be best and safeguard other little girls from his mauling hands and other things: Amanda: I believe in you: I know from reading your story you were looking for advice on the right thing to do: Darlene: has given you the right thing to do: Counselling will help you: Make it easier on yourself and bring what you wrote to Darlene on her SAFE HAVEN and well stewarded site, you would get the best of advice and her love: She truly benefits all her visitors with her heart feeling words of love, support and encouragement: So off your Bottom: Act Now. don't have it on your conscious if you here he has molested another little beautiful, innocent, vunerable girl or boy: Be Brave: Be Strong: Amanda: You have good people around you: A good friend or two: Stay in education: Oh I almost forgot: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: change your lifestyle's and get out there with your friends and close-minded women your own age taking part in team sport: Sporting and cultural activities: It will do you a power of good: Widen your horizons: Make you feel good about your Body: Be gentle and kind on yourself and your body: Build up your SELF WORTH: A good mirror image of yourself: Let you motto be: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it: Who am I: I am WORTH it.

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