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May 11, 2011
Allison:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted to read that you're in therapy to help you deal with the repercussions of being sexually abused. There is something that I must, however, point out: at seven years old, your sister could not have known about anything sexual unless she herself was sexually abused. She could not at 7 years of age had the presence of mind to know the repercussions of her actions. She was mimicking what happened to her. And though that may be difficult to understand, especially when you yourself did not make the same choices as your sister, bringing the light of understanding to the situation may be helpful. That in no way minimizes what you have gone through and the emotional toll this has taken on you. But when you look at things differently, everything changes. Yes, you were betrayed by her, but she was 7 years old. At 7 years old most of us are in grade 2 and loosing our baby teeth. But at 7 years old, your sister was sexually intrusive, acting out what was done to her. I'm asking myself who sexually abused her, and how is it that no one noticed. I do hope you'll stay in therapy to deal with the repercussions of being abused in this way. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 12, 2011
Healing is ongoing: Always believe in YOURSELF
by: maurice

Allison W: you have made th right decision to share your true (honest) feelings here on Darlene site: Oh please read her loving words to you from her womans heart: They will empower you: Your therapist will put it all in perspective for you Take your time: Darlene's woamn's insticts with her professional knowledge made a good observation; You were both very young children: At seven years I am sure your sister did not mean to hurt you or even think what she did to you would effect your thinking: You are effected by what she did but I am certain you'll understand Darlene's re-assuring words to you: She know therapy will do you good so stay there; Now Allison W become an active and alive young lady by taking part with your fellow students and friends in team games and sporting and cultural activitiesL I am certain in no time you'll be blossoming into a very gifted and tallented young woman: You be gentle and kind to yourself and your body: Look in the mirror and celebrate the me looking out at you: Think positive: Act positive: Be positive in all you do and say about yourself: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: I'M SPECIAL AND I LOVE ME: READ Darlene's comment take ownership of it:

May 15, 2011
Thanks
by: Allison W

Thank you for your comments. I what i didn't write was my sister also abused me physicly for years. Emotionaly too. Anything you could think of she did.

May 27, 2011
your a beautiful person in side and out
by: meshell

i no wat u are going through my sister used to get fresh wit me at times i waz only 5 i thought we were playing i didnt no at the time,, and she waz so mean to me hit me make me feel bad about my self az we got older she moved out to live wit my aunt cindy ,, my aunt hated me to she used to hit me and call me real bad names my mom always drank that why she moved out and my mom hooked up wit my step dad he a kool guy,, always treated me like his own till my brother came around i never got no love i waz always left out ,, then wen i turn 15 i met this man named mario i thought he waz nice the best man u can meet he waz 26 i waz 15 i waz jus looking for sum one to love me,, then till i saw his real side he beat me very badly for 11 years and always said i waz ugly no one loves me and i couldnt wear wat i wanted or do any thing i had to ask him first,, i waz sooo sceard to leave i waz stuck no wear to go,, i went trough hell for soo many years i used to blame god cuz my life never got better,, he beat me in the head wit a hammer made me slow he hit me wit his car cuz i wouldnt get in,, i hated life soo much and i had 8 kids by him i had to be in the house at all times my kids got tolking away cuz of him,, i live wit this everyday the pain the hurt i hate my self i wish i waz dead i tryed killing my self so many times it never works i jus get sick or i jus wake back up,, i dont no wat to do at the time so i got hook on herion i snort it not shoot up,, till one day i jus got tierd of it all i stabbed him and left i met me old child hood frend got married he treats me like a queen :) but i still live with that man in my head everyday and ill always hate my sister and family nothing will ever change that,, but i hope u do get better im more worried bout u then my self, take care and godbless <3 :)

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