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Jul 03, 2010
Allison:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You're worthy of so much more. Please tell someone, someone who can help you. I urge you to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Jul 03, 2010
Put an end to it
by: Mike

You are still a child, forced to grow up in some ways, but still a child. You deserve to be living the life most other children have, and to grow up with good memories. You need to talk to someone or call a hotline and get help. You need to be removed from the abusive life you're in now. You deserve to be happy for a change. Please talk to someone so you can put an end to this NOW.

Jul 07, 2010
it needs 2 STOP
by: crystal

listen allison i know wat it feels like 2 be abused i am so sorry he should reely stop i meen he should pick u insted 4 everything else

Jul 08, 2010
I'm sorry sweety :(
by: Melissa H.

Sorry babe, i am going through some abuse right now with my family, i dont really talk to them and just stay in my room most of the time. But i know how u feel like, im really sorry. But thats sorta surprising about what ur friends did. Lifes always got an ending hole to it. Hold on tight, we're with you sweety!

Jul 08, 2010
Talk to some one
by: Lisa

You really need to talk to someone about what your dealing with you are still only a child and dervere so much more the feelings you have will eat you up in side please take darlines advise ring one of the hot lines there are people out there who care and want to help.My prayers are with you xx

Jul 13, 2010
theres Hope
by: Anonymous

im 14 years old to and i could never picture being a victim of sexual abuse i think i would have broke dwn already, your still and child and being violated and such ways makes you wonder lik what have i done to make this happen to me out of all the 6 billion people in the world? Why should i have to cry at night and feel pain? , just remmeber your never alone and God Loves u theres a reason your still alive becux you can make a difference you just have to stay strong and try your hardest to get out of this sittuation . BE strong allison

Jul 16, 2010
Future
by: Anonymous

I promise you will not live like this forever. But you have to remember when you are 18, an adult, and start making your own decisions to go beyond what you know. Everyone I know can't believe I am where I am at in life right now because your story is very similar to my childhood story and we really are given zero chances. Get good grades, focus on school, go to college and make something out of yourself. There is no better revenge than letting those people who hurt you see that you are living an amazing life and they can't impact you. The abuse sucks, but as a person it made me so much stronger (not to say that it was worth it). Keep your head high, read books, help others......Please stop cutting yourself, you are stooping down to the same level when you do that. You are better than that! Prove it!

May 04, 2011
get help focus on you!
by: Anonymous

Hi, I was crying when I read your story because it really touched me (not that all the other stories didnt...its just that you write quite well and it felt as if I was there with you). Well, I wish I could take all this away...and make it better but in my opinion you should really talk to someone. I know you might be afraid but you have to do this. Even if you cannot leave these people right now, you need someone who understands you and who can give you guidance and tell you ways to overcome this situation. YOu cannot believe how important it is to have a person that TOTALLY understands, never judges you and actually listens to what you are saying and gives you the right advice. I am afraid that if you do not do this, you will get emotionally ill from all this, maybe not now but in the future. The only three pieces of practical advice I can give you are those: 1) focus on your schooling in order to get good grades and go study somewhere and leave them behind when you are 18!!!! 2)read books or articles about child abuse on line and join forums where you can talk, places that work with doctors so that they can answer all your questions and keep you sane, 3) do not feel guilt and try to help out your dad. He is not your responsibility and he is trying to guilt-trip you right now by telling you all sorts of crap like "im going to kill myself" and all that. Its not true. You are not the cause of his problems and you are not responsible for him just because you are his daughter. Right now you cannot help and should not help anybody BUT you!!! Please read on line about guilt and child abuse and you will see how many abusers quilt-trip their children and those children end up hurt even further. If you need help just contact us here to have a further chat. I am praying for you honey!

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